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How old is too old? (92)

This post is on the Other BDSM web board.

sky_j2000 wrote:
At what age do you think you should 'calm down' if at all or is it just me?!

I think it is difficult to conceive of what life is like at 72 when you're 27. I'm 52 and its difficult to imagine it as well. There's a line in a country song that still gets air time over here that goes something like "I may not be as good as I once was, but I'm as good once as I ever was". I can see that being the case.

Thinking of the elderly as sexual beings does have a certain "yuck" factor to it for many people, in the way that *parentsex* does. Just as you wanted people to not treat you in an "act your age" fashion when you were younger, I'd urge you not to apply that to anyone else.

It's her body. If she throws her back out using the strap-on, she may consider the payoff worth the pain.

SinPar

-- The weak are the most treacherous of us all. They come to the strong and drain them. They are bottomless. They are insatiable. They are always parched and always bitter. They are everyone's concern, and like vampires they suck our life's blood. (Bette Davis)

3 Jul 09, 2:06 PM
Brambly
3 yrs

Shibari_Cognoscenti wrote:
It's just you!

Agreed !!

3 Jul 09, 2:09 PM
Betony
UK, 7 yrs

sky_j2000 wrote:
Yes I did mean it in a nice way. I just worry she will hurt herself. Some of the things she was doing on the night scared me and it was a little strange seeing someone of that age doing that sort of thing. I know its upto her what she does, I only hope she doesn't break a hip of something! lol

If you're so worried about her why don't you have a quiet word with her next time you see her about her safety. I'm sure she will laugh all the way to her next orgasm.

3 Jul 09, 2:16 PM
DaddysTouch
UK(RG), 3 yrs

What everyone means is:

"No, it totally isn't just you, but I don't like what you said so I'll pretend it really is just you, and there's not a single other person in the world who thinks such things."

What men in all the world have shown such daring?

3 Jul 09, 2:17 PM
Lj_switch
UK, 2 yrs

I recently took the plunge into active BDSM for the simple reason that I qualified for my bus pass in May and thought "the clock is ticking, bloody well do it!"

When I was a teenager, parentsex, or for that matter almost any activity sexual or otherwise stopped somewhere around 35. As I got older I realised that whilst the odd few physical limitations crop up, the mental attitude is what counts. I know middle-aged 30 year-olds, they are like that because of their attitude.

I'm hoping to age disgracefully and eccentrically.

And to the OP, we all get older, and you will come to see your kind thoughts in a different perspective. Some of the reactions you have had are predictable, but I sense there was no "you shouldn't be doing that at your age" though some have taken it that way.

3 Jul 09, 2:20 PM
JudyInDsGuise
UK(E), 8 yrs

DaddysTouch wrote:
What everyone means is:

"No, it totally isn't just you, but I don't like what you said so I'll pretend it really is just you, and there's not a single other person in the world who thinks such things."

You're young, you *would* say that ::pats your head::

judy

I must be only one in a million (© David Bowie)

3 Jul 09, 2:26 PM
Trance_Former
4 yrs

Shibari_Cognoscenti wrote:
It's just you!

Thank God for that . I am about to turn 64. There is hope for me yet.

Wonder if she wants a toy boy ??

Trance

3 Jul 09, 2:29 PM
Trance_Former
4 yrs

Lady_Anna_Bradford wrote:

sky_j2000 wrote:
How old is too old?

Recently while out at a friends private party I met a very nice women of 72. We got chatting ,as you do, and she told me her husband is boring so she comes to BDSM partys to play and loves to do all sorts of sexaul things to boys and get pampered. (I won't go into details but one was using a strap on) I do admit she did not look her age at all and seemed to have a lot of life in her but felt that it was a little strange for someone her age to take part in something that sometimes requires a lot of energy and hard work. I was worried about her hurting herself. I'm not saying she should stop doing what she enjoys but maybe calm it down a little and just get the pampering side of it. At what age do you think you should 'calm down' if at all or is it just me?!

Good grief! How judgemental and patronising does this make you sound? Did it make you all squiffy because someone old enough to be your grandmother has the audacity to retain her sex drive?

More power to her strap-on I say

Its funny how the young never think they will one day be in the situation !

Trance.. ( at least I wont have to work til Im 75 )

3 Jul 09, 3:33 PM
BarbieSlutLoki
UK(E), 6 yrs

I'm never going to be too old, I've dressing up since 1st school and fully intend to grow old disgracefully

Wasn't there a beautiful poem, ahhhh here it is, it seems so appropriate

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Edited 3 Jul 09, 3:34 PM by BarbieSlutLoki

3 Jul 09, 3:41 PM
fussyone
9 yrs

It's great to hear that she's still at it, enjoying life. Most people of 72 who i'm aware of are sat in hospital bored, or unable to move around or live an independant life. If shes healthy, there is no reason why she can't keep going as long as she feels she wants to

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