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| Fri 3 Jul 09, 12:56 PM sky_j2000 UK(BR), 2 yrs  |
Recently while out at a friends private party I met a very nice women of 72. We got chatting ,as you do, and she told me her husband is boring so she comes to BDSM partys to play and loves to do all sorts of sexaul things to boys and get pampered. (I won't go into details but one was using a strap on) I do admit she did not look her age at all and seemed to have a lot of life in her but felt that it was a little strange for someone her age to take part in something that sometimes requires a lot of energy and hard work. I was worried about her hurting herself. I'm not saying she should stop doing what she enjoys but maybe calm it down a little and just get the pampering side of it. At what age do you think you should 'calm down' if at all or is it just me?! | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:05 PM Max_Bedroom 4 yrs |
I can pretty much see the response here, even though you are clearly coming from a nice place... It aint up to you, is it? It is her decision, and if she feels up to the task, who are you to tell her otherwise? You can't put a limit on this, nor should you try to. It has to be down to the individual - and what one person can do at any given age, another of the same age can't.
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| 3 Jul 09, 1:05 PM Muzzlehatch UK(TN), 7 yrs  |
It's just you! Owner and Builder of The Croppery Dungeon and Breakfast, on the sunny East Sussex coast. | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:06 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
Good grief! How judgemental and patronising does this make you sound? Did it make you all squiffy because someone old enough to be your grandmother has the audacity to retain her sex drive?
More power to her strap-on I say "If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:06 PM Ratfink 2 yrs |
It's just you,,,,,,,,Oh bugger you beat me to it !!! | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:06 PM SemiTrainedApe UK, 4 yrs |
Good on her, I say. I used to be mates with a guy in his 70s and we'd go for long walks with him pacing away ahead of me all the time having energy to keep up a rant about modern ways etc. If this woman looks like Hilda off Ever Decreasing Circles, I say that's hot. The experiment requires that you continue. | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:07 PM sky_j2000 UK(BR), 2 yrs |
Yes I did mean it in a nice way. I just worry she will hurt herself. Some of the things she was doing on the night scared me and it was a little strange seeing someone of that age doing that sort of thing. I know its upto her what she does, I only hope she doesn't break a hip of something! lol | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:07 PM the1whoserves UK(DN), 6 yrs |
yes it just you i,m araid,, age is not a barier for bdsm play ,,if the lady is having fun i,am sure she would know when she is overdoing it,, and then she could sit back and let her slave/sub pamper her,, age like colour or ethnic creed shold not limit our sense of freedom to express ourselves as we desire,, remember the key words consensual safe sane.. hope the lady continues to have fun for as many years as she can,, | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:08 PM Ratfink 2 yrs |
I think her name was Nora, Nora Batty. Hot or what ! Edited 3 Jul 09, 1:09 PM by Ratfink | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:10 PM SemiTrainedApe UK, 4 yrs |
That does stay my hand.
The experiment requires that you continue. | |
| 3 Jul 09, 1:17 PM Mabuse 3 yrs |
I know many even older people who are having the time of their lives travelling through the Sahara, scuba diving, skiing, doing yoga in more bendy positions than I can ever dream of... I suppose the lesson here is: keep active (doing kinky stuff or whatnot) and your body and mind will stay healthy into ripe old age ^^x |
