Planning scenes (28)

I'm always very surprised when people say that they never plan a scene, or that planning it would spoil the sponteneity etc., because I don't know how anyone can do anything but the simplest of actions without some measure of planning.

A concrete example: First I'm going to strap wrist and ankle cuffs on my sub to restrict her movements but compel her to follow me on the collar and lead. next I'm going to make her lie down on the bed while I hogtie her . . . but hang on a moment. How can she climb onto the bed if her ankles are cuffed? How can she suck my cock if she's still gagged? How can even stand up if her ankles are stull cuffed (try it and see)

As always the devil is in the details. No one has to storyboard the entire session - that really would be a passion-killer. But, as I say, unless one has a firm grasp of all the little things that will make it possible and easy to realise one's dreams then making them happen is going to be rather haphazard.

I find a session lasts anything from 2 to 3 hours. Unless I had some idea what I was going to do, I'd be lost after 15 minutes.

It's the simple little things

There may be more than one way to skin a cat - but there is only one try per cat.

Normally Daddy has a good idea of what he is in the mood for, or I may request something and we'll take it from there. We've never had any problems with things like gags - as if he wants his cock sucking he'll simply remove the gag. I suppose so far most of our scenes have been as "us".

On Monday I will call at the house on some random pretext, be overpowered, interrogated over a prolonged period for my safe word, pissed on, beaten like I have never been before, raped and utterly used in every way he sees fit.

I've never had this much information and input into a scene before, so one side of me is worried that it won't live up to my fantasies (but they are just too hard to resist when the wand is close at hand ). I think as I normally do I just need to go with the flow and be grateful for whatever Daddy decides to give me, but OMG I am excited!!!!

Jules XxX

Been a pro i do tend also to plan my sessions very carefully,the scene has to make sense, the music right,create the correct mood for both,the needs client/sub analized properly so we can both enjoy.

I'm always very surprised when people say that they never plan a scene, or that planning it would spoil the sponteneity etc., because I don't know how anyone can do anything but the simplest of actions without some measure of planning.

A concrete example: First I'm going to strap wrist and ankle cuffs on my sub to restrict her movements but compel her to follow me on the collar and lead. next I'm going to make her lie down on the bed while I hogtie her . . . but hang on a moment. How can she climb onto the bed if her ankles are cuffed? How can she suck my cock if she's still gagged? How can even stand up if her ankles are stull cuffed (try it and see)

As always the devil is in the details. No one has to storyboard the entire session - that really would be a passion-killer. But, as I say, unless one has a firm grasp of all the little things that will make it possible and easy to realise one's dreams then making them happen is going to be rather haphazard.

I find a session lasts anything from 2 to 3 hours. Unless I had some idea what I was going to do, I'd be lost after 15 minutes.

It's the simple little things

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I just hope she remembers them all when she gets back in the country!

Sometimes it is exciting to know a little of what might be coming - particularly if that something is going to be unpleasant or difficult to endure. I thrive on suspense and prolonged misery so the squirming and fretting beforehand is an experience all of it's own.

There is also a great pleasure to be had though from simply being present and available for my Mistress's whims, knowing that some nights she may want me to pack envelopes or prepare refreshment and other nights she may want to beat me and torment me.

As my Mistress mentioned herself, any sense of obligation even from herself detracts from her pleasure and makes her uncomfortable so this makes planning difficult. I have seen her excited about plans only to begin dragging her heels as the evening goes on because she dislikes feeling compelled to do something so much! I make sure to remind her often that I never take her suggestions as set in stone and know that anything may (or may not) happen which I hope helps.

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