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| alexandraa |
Dont make me laugh..... Read a couple of blogs today talking about what a tough life Dominants have because of all the responsibility and control they have as their BURDEN - ie us lot of feeble minded submissives. Ha! You silly creatures. They love it as much as we love to submit. If it wasn't as fulfilling to THEM as it is to poor ickle us then why the buggery would they love it so much and seek to be stricter and stricter with us?? Hmmmm????
They bloody love taking our submission that's what the whole power exchange is about. We give, they take and they give right back and we give again and so on and so on. I used to think the same myself and still wonder at the joy M gets from controlling and protecting me. Its lovely and fulfilling that he gets as much from being my Dominant as I get from being his submissive. Without that complete exchange then what would you have? Bit of kinky sex? (Nowt wrong with kinky sex - bring it on). What would be the worst thing would be the draining of one person ie the sub or Dom giving without equal return and that's where your relationship will break down. Where there is no balance to the giving. The energy just drains away there is no power exchange just a one way street.
Personally I crave the complete and utter depth of the submission I give to M and the complete and utter Dominance he gives me in return.
You are right about one thing - I see their Dominance
as much of a gift as I see our submission. As much as
M may say to me that he never forgets i give myself
utterly to him body and soul, I never forget that he
gives me his Dominance - his care, protection, love,
guidance, strict control, possessiveness (soon to be
the title of a future blog) and buckets full of
outrageously kinky sex involving unspeakable things
that i couldn't possibly mention cause you'd all be
too shocked....... 
Suggestions on a postcard to.......
And as for famous people that might have been or maybe Dominants I say look for the quiet steely thoughtful ones eg Sean Connery (yum) sigh.........
Edited Sat 13 Mar 04, 4:07 PM by alexandraa
