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| 30 Jun 09, 11:01 PM fuschia UK(SE), 11 yrs  |
For a bit of light relief: http://www.londonfetishscene.com/index.php?optio... http://www.londonfetishscene.com/index.php?optio... Me and my piercings!! And Alexia's tattoo: http://www.londonfetishscene.com/index.php?optio... The problem with a network is the dishonest and abusive will be very selective who they network
I am happy to give an honest report on the past activities of X_Thunder_X to anyone thinking of getting involved in the future Edited 30 Jun 09, 11:03 PM by fuschia | |||
| 30 Jun 09, 11:06 PM Volatile 3 yrs |
I didnt get my tattoo until I was mature enough to appreciate the positives and negatives of doing so. The girl that got all the stars on her face was stupid but young. The tattoist was old enough to know she was too young to appreciate what she was doing. Both were at fault! she has damaged her life potential and labelled herself permanently. She may not appreciate this now but will do in the future. I read many of the posts on Ic and quite a few are from very young people. You can tell they are from the innocence they ooze. I just hope that those on IC are responsible enough not to take advantage of youths innocense. V | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 1:20 AM John_Doe UK(ML), 7 yrs |
My sentiments exactly | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 1:22 AM Rosalee UK, 6 yrs  |
I got my one tattoo nearly 15 years ago and this after at least a year of thinking very carefully about the design I wanted. I have no regrets. It was done on my own terms and had nothing to do with anyone else. It was symbolic for me for very personal reasons that had nothing to do with any current (or past) relationship. I, personally, wouldn't have a tattoo to please a partner and nor would I expect a partner to have one to please me. Just my take on things. I understand others feel differently. On the other hand, I was involved in a rather wonderful and, as it turned out, one-off scene with another woman a few years ago. One that we'd discussed at length and which left me with some, albeit tiny, scars. Again I have no regrets about that either. They are a reminder of a lovely time. I suppose ultimately my take on this is that my body is my responsibility and so are any decisions I take about body modifications that might happen to it.
Edited 1 Jul 09, 2:23 AM by Rosalee | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 2:08 AM Tovarich UK, 6 yrs |
Heh, I know Volatile said this as part of a wise counsel to younger members here....but can't you just imagine it being a favourite phrase of Rob Newman's 'Jarvis' character? Myself, I'm quite happy with my tattoo (got at almost aged 40) marking me as Lilly's, but it's in kanji. I'd have been reluctant to have it in plain english - what if she decided to change her name? Tovarich is a combination of frothy comedy with bitter political undertones.- googlism | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 8:54 AM dominalush UK(RG), 5 yrs |
my tatoos are all special to me..each one has a special significance that is briefly brought to mind whenever i catch a glimpse of them.so to have a tatoo specifically for another person then have relationship break up would be very hard for me.my slave trogg very much wanted an ownership tatoo,so he has"owned by dominalush"on his back.we did joke that if we split he could just add a "dis"to the owned...disowned by dominalush...but as our relationship is not a romantic one bit purely Ds i can see no reason for us to part.but even so the deciscion(how do you spell that???)to have the tatoo was his and i think this should always be the case to give pain is my pleasure...... | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 9:14 AM x_Thunder_x UK(E), 9 yrs      |
You know fuschia, this is the second time you've made a comment like this (the first in one of your weblogs) where you said
I don't know WTF you are implying but I would suggest you either retract those accusations or say what gossip you now have been hearing/spreading
^Thunder^ | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 9:20 AM Backdooruk UK(BA), 12 yrs |
I think one has to distinguish between ownership and a romantic relationship, otherwise ownership means nothing. If a relationship isn't primarily about being owned then I agree with Temperance, it's no difference from the non-kink world, it' the person getting the mark's primary responsibility to know the consequences of what they are putting on their body, not who that mark is dedicated to. If the relationship is about ownership then that has to include the possibility of ownership ending, whether that's years or weeks later and I'd expect the marks to be seen in the light of their inception, not coloured by the end of ownership (as a few have said earlier). I have to say the specifics talked about come over as an excuse to be angry at someone for the end of a relationship (something people often do) not a genuine grievance we are supposed to take seriously. I always advise people to take a least a few months before trying to 'get back' at someone they've split up with otherwise they risk casting a bad light just as much on themselves. - Chris This is my voice, my weapon of choice | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 9:21 AM Miss_Hardy UK(E), 5 yrs  |
Even if she did retract them you've just quoted her on the main boards so now everyone who doesn't read blogs can see what she and others think of you. Well done. And to be fair if you will insist on conducting your relationships in such a public manner then of course people are going to talk about you.
"Have people always been this angry? I've got this really funny idea that before the internet people would just write FUCK YOU! and attach it to pigeons" - Russell Howard | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 9:39 AM Bubbles_2 UK(E), 6 yrs |
I don't know if this thread is about tattoos or not, but if i ruled the world, no-one would be allowed a tattoo until they were at least 30... I think of that poor stupid girl in the news recently who had those stars on her face. At 18, you can have no concept of how long the rest of your life is and how much you change over the years..i am sure she will spend most of her life regretting her decision.. Club Subversion Crossing the Rubicon FleursduMal bobette's Facebook Beginners Guide to BDSM |
