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| 30 Jun 09, 3:26 PM Glovepuppet UK(GL), 3 yrs   |
I used to put make-up on my little brother. For me it was the living doll thing and because it was at an age where I was growing out of children's toys and he still wanted to play, he used to ask for it. Lobsterboy and I went shopping for Him recently and I loved Him trying on all the jackets that I liked. I can easily understand how a Domme woman could enjoy taking that further and feminising a guy. As you wish | ||||
| 30 Jun 09, 3:29 PM ALittleBizarre 5 yrs |
I want a doll, but not a boy one, i want a girl one, probably for simular motivations though. "Hey boy take a look at me, Let me dirty up your mind." --Garbage | ||||
| 30 Jun 09, 3:45 PM Ms_Tytania_London 3 yrs |
I *Think* BarbieSlutLoki is referring to those males who love it, but claim to love being *forced* into it. I agree with him, it's a bit like "forced bi", some kind of pre-emptive hypocrisy at play there. In my personal play, I love an attrctive man in ladies' lingerie, specially if he's wearing them under normal, blokey clothes. It's a huge turn on and it really gets me going. In professional sessions, however, I've stopped accepting specimens for feminization. The session is always about them. They and their clothes and appearance are the centre of the universe, and Mistress is only there as an observing object they can preen to. I don't feel like a Domme, but more like a hand maid. I got very tired of selfish men who, after a time consuming feminisation, and when asked what they session was like, reply something along the lines of "I told you I like frilly knickers, not g-strings. It put me off the session mood". Fantastic. So femboys, no need to apply for "service" (meaning, how well I know, *me* being your personal maid) Chez Tytania. In my studio I preen and demand, and my specimens STFU.
Edited 30 Jun 09, 3:47 PM by Ms_Tytania_London | ||||
| 2 Jul 09, 7:41 AM feetintrouble_jemima UK(EN), 4 yrs |
Maybe it's because boys are often told they must not do girly things like play with dolls, whereas it's often OK for girls to do things like play football, so boys want to make up for the things they didn't do in their youth. A bit stereotyped I know, and maybe different these days, but it's my guess. But it's more fun being a girl! | ||||
| 2 Jul 09, 8:24 AM Violently UK(B), 12 yrs |
I like it for all sorts of reasons. I think underlying it is that sense of freedom to play with the idea of gender. At the same time for me it's a tactile and aesthetic thing. I love when a guy looks really great in a pair of shiny thigh high heeled boots and a corset. For me it's not being feminised as much as it is about being ... i don't know... transformed? Fetishising the materials of that process - the feel of nylons, the hug of laces... being outside of yourself... that sort of thing. -- A Kervert Pinky | ||||
| 2 Jul 09, 1:00 PM dominalush UK(RG), 5 yrs  |
for me it depends on the guy...i love a hard bodied man in womens clothes...i like them to look just what they are...a man in womens clothes..for that reason i dont tend to want to go the whole hog ie wig,makeup,shaved legs etc.i find it incredibly sexy.it blurs the lines a bit...i love a slutty,sexy look,high heels,hold-ups....oooh getting all hot at the thought. to give pain is my pleasure...... | ||||
| 2 Jul 09, 2:35 PM wonderer UK, 5 yrs |
Like several submissive fantasies, I think there may be some who love it and want it, some who hate it but are willing submissively to endure, and some who have a strange mixture of fear and desire, who want or are willing to be led and stretched into a place they'd never go unaided.
Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/ Edited 2 Jul 09, 2:37 PM by wonderer | ||||
| 2 Jul 09, 2:52 PM AstronautMikeDexter UK(E), 2 yrs |
If you're the kind that love it the "forced" bit isn't so much about denying being bi so much as it is about playing with the societal roles and expectations we all grow up embedded with. Being forced in that instance is a roleplay scenario where the fun to had is in transgressing society's sexual norms. --- Ha! | ||||
| 2 Jul 09, 3:08 PM maid_brigitte UK(NE), 10 yrs |
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| 2 Jul 09, 3:38 PM FionualaHLC UK(RG), 5 yrs |
Watching him over balance, hopping on one leg, squealing like a girly as he tried to put on stockings or even pantyhose, his leg hairs catching in them. Watching him stagger across the carpet in my high heels, still getting used to them, seeing the way his hips rolled slightly, not elegantly like a female in heels, but awkwardly as he tries not to trip. Pulling at the suspenders and letting it slap back to his skin as he lets out a soft ouch. Seeing the relief on his face when you allow him to sit and get off his feet. Feeling him curl up behind you with you totally nude, the odd contrast of masculine muscles but silky smooth lingerie pressing to your skin. Feeling stockings rub against your smooth legs, but then the torture of being able to pull at the hairs of his legs where they poke out of that fine material and hearing the ouch and feeling the jump of pain. Part of it is the sheer joy of watching him come to terms with some of what we women go through, but also the joy on his face at the textures, the touch of the material, the sensations. Great because he was a crossdressing virgin. Been a while, but it was fun. |
