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IC ... not a dating site (78)

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28 Jun 09, 2:26 AM
HarmCandy
UK, 3 yrs

Is that so? I'm here to troll.

And this post itself is a troll... PaRaDoXiCaL?!?!1onenwot

H

misfit wrote:
I think IC is a great many things to many people. My primary objective is to learn more about the things that I like and also about the things I may potentially like in the future.

I suppose a secondary objective which I did not realise when I joined has been to chat to a wide variety of interesting, and often highly amusing people. I am a big fan of comedy and would definitely have come here sooner if I had realised this earlier.

I have also met some people from here, which was never an intention and received invitations to play from others which I suppose is the dating part. I often see ads which I thoroughly enjoy but I am far too shy to do anything about.

Whilst I have been here I have also realised there are people I would like to meet in a non sexual capacity, purely because they are nice people and I enjoy talking to them.

This is hard for me to say as I am often seen as a bit aloof, but I even made some friends in here, and I am yet to go out to a munch! There are physical reasons for this at the current time but once overcome I look forward to munching away in the future with some of you.

Best

M

'It is the centaur! Chiron, halt! And let me speak with you. You taught and formed, with wisdom, strength and grace, the greatest heroes of a hero-race. In their noblest footsteps you have trod, and lived the hard life of a demigod.'

Edited 28 Jun 09, 2:27 AM by HarmCandy

28 Jun 09, 7:56 AM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

I get the impression from this and another thread that my view was slightly mistaken. It seems to work as a dating site for some women; they seem to be able to get contacts (though not always suitable ones) without too much effort. For men however I think I was right; we have to participate in the site more fully and pursue multiple avenues to make contacts and - if seeking - to find partners.

Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/

28 Jun 09, 4:10 PM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs
What!

Elucidate sir

M

HarmCandy wrote:
Is that so? I'm here to troll.

And this post itself is a troll... PaRaDoXiCaL?!?!1onenwot

H

misfit wrote:
I think IC is a great many things to many people. My primary objective is to learn more about the things that I like and also about the things I may potentially like in the future.

I suppose a secondary objective which I did not realise when I joined has been to chat to a wide variety of interesting, and often highly amusing people. I am a big fan of comedy and would definitely have come here sooner if I had realised this earlier.

I have also met some people from here, which was never an intention and received invitations to play from others which I suppose is the dating part. I often see ads which I thoroughly enjoy but I am far too shy to do anything about.

Whilst I have been here I have also realised there are people I would like to meet in a non sexual capacity, purely because they are nice people and I enjoy talking to them.

This is hard for me to say as I am often seen as a bit aloof, but I even made some friends in here, and I am yet to go out to a munch! There are physical reasons for this at the current time but once overcome I look forward to munching away in the future with some of you.

Best

M

Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
I know I'm being used, that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
Cake or Death?
She'll tie a noose with your heartstrings

1 Jul 09, 7:53 AM
Purrverse
US, 6 yrs
Works as a dating site for me.

"I can't tell if you're playing some kind of feminazi mind fuck game on me or if you're trying to seduce me." -Sex and Death 101

1 Jul 09, 12:20 PM
Gordon_Comstock
UK(YO), 2 yrs

If you were only in the dales of Yorkshire. Having seen your profile all I Would say is what are you doing Saturday night?
1 Jul 09, 12:32 PM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs
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Well i met someone through this site, ok, it wasnt exactly a date, but we met and had some experiences, you get the idea, so i would say dating is possible.

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Ditto

Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
I know I'm being used, that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
Cake or Death?
She'll tie a noose with your heartstrings

1 Jul 09, 12:37 PM
MrDelphian
2 yrs
If you're hot or have something to offer then this becomes a dating site. If you ming then it's just another forum.
1 Jul 09, 9:25 PM
Mistah_Woolf
UK(M), 3 yrs

Im here for both supposedly but chances of meeting someone in the midlands seem slim. Always happy to chat to anyone about anything. Ic is useful for keeping in touch and meeting people. And I agree with you jane it is definitely more grown up that alt and far more community based I feel.

Jay

Without order nothing can exist - without chaos nothing can evolve

1 Jul 09, 11:25 PM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs
Innocuous wrote:
If you're hot or have something to offer then this becomes a dating site. If you ming then it's just another forum.

Not exactly as I have no photo up and a photo was not asked for so my fun and games happened purely because of how I write, and the content of my writing in private correspondence.

The pen is indeed mightier than the sword.

M

Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
I know I'm being used, that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
Cake or Death?
She'll tie a noose with your heartstrings

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