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Why topping from the bottom is WRONG. (15)

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16 Jun 09, 5:00 PM
HarmCandy
UK, 4 yrs

Oh, but it's so fun! Even better when the other knows what one is doing :-) And exerting a modicum of power from the bottom in order to bring more out of play can hardly be called 'topping', anyway.

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JudyInDsGuise wrote:
Oh but "he/she tops from the bottom" sounds so much nicer than "he/she is a scheming, manipulative little shit".

judy

'It is the centaur! Chiron, halt! And let me speak with you. You taught and formed, with wisdom, strength and grace, the greatest heroes of a hero-race. In their noblest footsteps you have trod, and lived the hard life of a demigod.'

16 Jun 09, 6:39 PM
DancesWithPussycats
UK(TW), 7 yrs

I don't care what it is called so long as it feels good.

International man of mystery

16 Jun 09, 7:43 PM
BarbieSlutLoki
UK(E), 6 yrs
JudyInDsGuise wrote:
Oh but "he/she tops from the bottom" sounds so much nicer than "he/she is a scheming, manipulative little shit".

judy

Brat is easier on the tongue

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16 Jun 09, 8:12 PM
Purrverse
US, 7 yrs
See, I think, and I could be wrong, that for me I define topping from the bottom to be those situations where the overall position of the bottom is just that- being the bottom, the receiver- but who does toppish activities (like, say, slapping the face, or spanking) as an agitator for the top.

So, an example would be- I'm getting fucked, but not hard enough. His hand is on my throat, I have welts on my ass, he's biting me... but it's just not enough.

I top from the bottom by spitting in his face. He then slaps me across the face, hard, which was the result I wanted. I have employed a top activity (being the giver) for the ultimate result of receiving more and harder from the top.

"I can't tell if you're playing some kind of feminazi mind fuck game on me or if you're trying to seduce me." -Sex and Death 101

16 Jun 09, 11:12 PM
rose_in_chains
UK(W), 4 yrs
DancesWithPussycats wrote:
I don't care what it is called so long as it feels good.

You're with me, baby! :-D

(i think it would be a good idea if you caned the backs of my thighs... oh, that hurts!) ;)

i NEVER top from the bottom. (LOL!) i just say what i want when i want it, and if i don't like it, i say stop. What, that's not submission? Sorry, you're not speaking my language.... ;)

Yours,

VANILLA rose... :-D

Travelling to SE Asia and Thailand - please memo me if you have any club tips or recommendations. Thank you :)

Edited 17 Jun 09, 10:15 AM by rose_in_chains

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