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| Fri 12 Jun 09, 12:07 PM absolutebondage UK(LS), 4 yrs   |
I am a lover of real bondage with no chance of escape for the prior agreed duration. No sex, no marking just bondage. This simply meaning once the lock snaps shut you or I remain helpless whether you scream or cry, no exceptions! Only in the even of an emergency (using common sense) would you be freed. I get the picture many would change their mind half way through the game however there will still be no escape. I wonder how do others feel about this? | ||
| 12 Jun 09, 8:47 PM bbound UK(CF), 9 yrs |
Sounds brilliant to me! Long term bondage is an incredible sensation, especially when you can't see the time (and make sure radios are switched off). All sense of time disappears and you keep thinking you will be released soon, then realise that it won't happen, then think it'll be soon.... ad infinitum. No freedom to move at all adds to the sensation. I was chained up, hands behind back to a ceiling chain, legs together, hooded and gagged on Weds - seemed like an eternity until release - turned out to be only three hours. Be careful though..... | ||
| 14 Jun 09, 4:35 PM CurvyWench UK(CM), 3 yrs |
I like the idea - but only with my Master who knows me very well. I guess if you are going to do it you need to find someone who shares your view of common sense. | ||
| 14 Jun 09, 7:00 PM Arceye UK(S), 7 yrs |
This can be great with playmates who you know very well. It needs the greatest of trust, and a good idea of the 'victim's' limits. | ||
| 15 Jun 09, 3:39 PM tiffanylondontv UK(SE), 6 yrs |
i have to say it appeals to me. i think the added dimension of bound, blindfolded, gagged and kidnapped so that you had no idea of where you had been taken either would greatly intensify the experience for both the Top and sub. A very large suitcase on wheels would be enough for the transportation i guess. | ||
| 17 Jun 09, 6:14 AM Trussedworthy UK(NW), 6 yrs |
I love this. That it's real and inescapeable greatly heightens the eroticism. I do prefer having a prior agreed duration, strangely not because I know there's only a finite duration left, but because I can immerse myself more deeply into the "headspace" or experience knowing that I'm NOT going to be released anytime soon. An hour is generally good for me (both of us, especially when we treat the bondage as tease and denial foreplay), though it has been longer, I've even been strapped to the bed all night which is quite a thrill knowing that you have to sleep like that and won't be released until morning, though with the agreement that if I needed the toilet I would be released and allowed to go, after all neither of us would want a wet bed. Oh and ropes and comfy cuffs are more comfortable for both of you than cold noisy chains when sleeping in the same bed whilst indulging in overnight bondage.
Recognise that MO from somewhere. Was it you who captured Terry Waite? (few hours, 5 years, oh well, what's in a number?) | ||
| 18 Jun 09, 7:56 PM PhoenixAmber UK(YO), 4 yrs |
I like the idea, I really do but I must admit a part of me worries that I may get bored. I like the idea of sensory deprevation and longer time spent in bondage just really feeling it although I'm sure that I would need to be in the right mindset and headspace to start with then it would be a really deep and 'subbie' experience. I'm not sure, maybe I'll have to try it and find out. "Ha ! I laugh at danger and drop ice cubes down the vest of fear." Edited 18 Jun 09, 7:58 PM by PhoenixAmber | ||
| 18 Jun 09, 8:48 PM Lashed_Up 3 yrs |
This whole thing would appeal to me enormously-total confinement,and i think "boredom" setting in as the above post infers is part of the total helplessness of the situation-Id happily spend a whole weekend in bondage-but I would need releasing on monday morning to go to work,which to my mind is a much greater punishment....oh sod it keep the chains on all week! | ||
| 6 Jul 09, 8:34 AM kermit_the_tadpole UK(M), 2 yrs |
i would just adore this...kept strapped up overnight, and in full baby attire, and being caged is an added plus....no way to escape...in my own world, happy in my own space...doesnt get much better in my book.. | ||
| 6 Jul 09, 9:20 AM KinkyRoly UK(OX), 3 yrs |
I used to live with a woman who adored using games of chance with BDSM. One day she got me to sign a piece of paper, which was placed in a shallow box such that I couldn't see inside. We each then tossed a dice into the box, she took a photograph of the dice and then removed and destroyed the signed paper. The photo was to retrospectively prove that she was playing fair ( this was in the days before digital photography too ), the signed paper was there to ensure that she couldn't take a different picture later. She then explained that she had multiplied the values of the two dice and I would spend that many hours tied and being teased, with no chance of release and no sexual release either. It didn't take a genius to work out that I could have been held for anything between 1 and 36 hours and not having a clue about the duration added tremendously to the experience. As it happened, it was for 15 hours. She changed the manner of the bondage and the position frequently, otherwise I think there may well have been circulation issues. | ||
| 6 Jul 09, 8:37 PM Oop_North UK, 4 yrs |
That sounds like a lot of fun, thanks for sharing. |
