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| 8 Jun 09, 10:03 AM MsDarklove_Hurts UK(WF), 7 yrs £   |
I can understand ( please see my original blurb) how someones self esteem absolutely blossoms under the ministrations of a good pro domme. I myself can get very sexually charged in a good session and although I do not offer penetrational (exept strapon!) or oral sex it can get pretty obvious that both myself and the client are exited and really getting into and enjoying the electrical atmosphere. It makes for an exiting and mind blowing session and how liberating and inspiring is that for a client who before then thought very little of themselves as attractively sexy blokes! The thing is a man does not HAVE to be tall, strong, handsome etc to promote extremely positive feelings in the dominant. It is the depth of submission and the extent in which they give themselves to the play and will do and try all I order that gets me off. I can find almost anyone attractive and sexually exiting when I see them totally submitting, on the floor, tied up, wotever and willingly giving me the power exchange I love. Sowwy to rant on like this, but I make no excuses for the PASSION that BDSM/D/s arouses in me. Perfect beauty. Absolute obedience. Edited 13 Aug 10, 3:25 PM by MsDarklove_Hurts | |
| 8 Jun 09, 5:45 PM KinkyKumbrian 3 yrs |
Brilliant posting Ms Darklove, you sum up my feelings exactly. This scene isn't about who is the best looking or who has the biggest dungeon, it's about what we get out of it. To me, being out of action for a while, I know I won't be happy until I get a taste of what I enjoy as much as penetrative sex. With regards to Roymondo's posting, some pro dommes will be expensive, but some of those who live in expensive locations like London will charge more, although the standard rate seems to be £ 100-150 an hour. | |
| 8 Jun 09, 9:33 PM Mr_Anorak 2 yrs |
It isn't the Pro-dommes and their clients who are the sad gits. It sounds as though whoever sent that memo can't control their anger, instead the anger is controlling them and making them act like an arse. | |
| 8 Jun 09, 9:57 PM KinkyKumbrian 3 yrs |
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| 9 Jun 09, 12:19 AM darkman10 UK(G), 4 yrs |
hi, as a newbie i totally agree with you mistress your comment came across unbiased you sound like a very caring domme its thats person problem if they had a bad experience with a domme mistress you cant please everyone as they say. darkman | |
| 9 Jun 09, 9:28 AM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 3 yrs £ |
Dear MsDarklove I fully understand how you were upset by this crank, I get it on two fronts, one for being a “Pro” and two for being a “Transvestite” both by e-mail & phone and however much you try to ignore them it can still get to you sometimes. For me being attacked for my transvestism is far more hurtful than for being a Pro. One in particular upset me so much that after I put the phone down I was in tears and even now when I think of what he said, it Still upsets me. As has already been said theses people probably lead very sad & insignificant lives so the only way to feel good about themselves is to have a go at us. For all I know they are jealous of our lifestyle and wish they had one like it. So “Nil illegitimate carbarundie” OR “Don't let the bastards grind you down” Is what I say. Love Katie, X | |
| 9 Jun 09, 9:55 AM MsDarklove_Hurts UK(WF), 7 yrs £ |
Sorry but not surprised to hear about your own negative experiences Katie. Yes..there is a lot of anger these days that is being directed at whoever seems vulnerable. Reading all the supportive messages on here has reminded me of the fact that the vast majority of people in this world are friendly, sensible and thoroughly decent, so why let the misdirected anger of the few upset us? What I am saying I suppose is that it was a bit stupid of me to let it get to me. (Arggggggg! Did I say I was stupid then??!!. I thoughted all us twue dommes were brilliant, super intelligent, faster than a speeding bullet, etc) Curses!
Perfect beauty. Absolute obedience. | |
| 9 Jun 09, 10:38 AM Miss_Katie_TV UK(SL), 3 yrs £ |
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| 9 Jun 09, 10:55 AM Ms_Tytania_London 3 yrs |
Miss Katie, I'm truly sorry to hear about your bad experiences. Perhaps you should go to the police. What that person did to you is hate crime and is punishable and I take it it wasn't a witheld number (I never reply to those, personally). | |
| 9 Jun 09, 5:01 PM Mistress_Lady_Julia UK(LN), 3 yrs £ |
I am a little late adding my support but I just wanted to say to MsDarklove you are a genuine caring Domme, and you are giving a brilliant service to those who need girls like us! I base that on the fact that I have seen plenty of your posts in the past and it is clear you are not just in it for the money ...lets be honest any of us Dommes on here adding messages are obviously doing so because we are genuinely 'into it' so why they chose you to bitch at I have no idea!! There are some real sad lonely no hopers out there who like to think up some vile things to send off, to try to spoil your day, They should get jobs as traffic wardens or something and leave us in peace..no offence to traffic wardens specifically but you get the idea. I think the person who mentioned jealousy was on the right track actually. I beleive there are a lot who are jealous as we get to do what we love and get paid! Just smile sweetly and remember - you still get to be you, but they are stuck with being THEM yuck ha ha!
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