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Offensive Memos (14)

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Thu 28 May 09, 9:37 PM
TheMarquise
UK, 6 yrs
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Edited Wed 25 May 11, 9:32 PM by TheMarquise

28 May 09, 9:50 PM
Ghedes_Princess
UK(SW), 6 yrs


Personally I can't understand why anyone bothers to get actually offended or upset by these things! Male or female! What a bloody waste of energy!

I certainly don't!

xxx

Did I mention? I love my life!

28 May 09, 9:55 PM
GoddessSharon
4 yrs
Princess_of_Subness wrote:
Personally I can't understand why anyone bothers to get actually offended or upset by these things! Male or female! What a bloody waste of energy!

I certainly don't!

xxx

Not every one thinks the same. But what gives people the right to send such a memo!!
28 May 09, 10:16 PM
Avada_Kedavra
UK, 7 yrs
Some people have nothing better to do than troll the internet insulting others. Simple as that really.

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/westlondonmunch/
M: Its only a baby needle, you wont know the difference. I am not a one dimensional needle obssessed domme...
J: Its going to be about sutures isnt it?

28 May 09, 10:21 PM
condemned
UK(M), 11 yrs
The 'Worthless pig','Little piggy' stuff seems to be more of an American trait and appears to be a standard humiliation tool to get men to part with cash to be humiliated.

Real abusive memo's are a different matter though and such behaviour should be reported,even though you can probably block the sender.

28 May 09, 10:29 PM
platinum77
UK(BH), 3 yrs

intelligence escapes some people...there are alot of fantasists on the boards these days with some very weird viewpoints and mis-guided ideals, i think for those of us who appreciate the heart and art of our world that the rest do not really matter, they are losing out ultimately....they were never really here and never will be....im sure most subs at some time or another have been dumb-founded with the representations of some wannabe, i know i have and it taught me more and more about who i knew i should be looking for and who i should not.
28 May 09, 10:29 PM
subjayBelfast
UK(BT), 3 yrs
Yes it is sad that some people have such an attitude,ok so most people would simply hit delete and forget about it, still dosnt make it right. To be frank thats the sort of presumptious attitude most would expect from a vanilla not someone within the scene.
28 May 09, 10:44 PM
strictlynormal
UK(HD), 6 yrs

TheMarquise wrote:

Again, the point of my post is to explore and comment on the concepts behind such memos.

It's not rocket science.

As long as the internet allows people with that mindset to send such memos to others then they will do so. Forget the 'concepts' behind their reasons for doing so, you surely have realised by now that there are complete tossers out there who are not worth the time of day, have you not?

They should be treated in the same way we deal with wanky door to door salesmen spouting bullshit in their attempts to get us to sign up to 'cheaper electricity' or whatever. I.e. with scepticism, disdain and a healthy dose of reality thrown their way :-)

End of.

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28 May 09, 10:47 PM
jules9
UK(CH), 3 yrs

The thing that annoys me about these memos is that to my mind the people who write them do so simply because they get off on writing them.

Sad pathetic loosers, that I used to think should be named, shamed and banned. Although I do appreciate the difficulty in trying to stop people like this, as Admin mentioned, they simply set up a new profile and start all over again.

It's one of those situations where they win simply by getting any attention. - Simply gives them more of their jollies and a reason to keep sending mails... Whilst I hate to admit to being wrong, I now see the reason why the best solution is hit report, and delete.

Jules XxX

28 May 09, 11:04 PM
lisal
9 yrs
condemned wrote:
The 'Worthless pig','Little piggy' stuff seems to be more of an American trait and appears to be a standard humiliation tool to get men to part with cash to be humiliated.

Yes quite

We don't know whether (or I don't think we do) the recipient of this one had had any contact with the sender before.

If it was unsolicited then it was an attempt to get him to part with some cash. If there had been some contact then it may have been part of the "game they were playing" (although I have to say I doubt this one) or an attempt to get him to part with some cash!!!

:) :)

I think it's a shame that these kind of (unsolicited) memos can lead people to condemn something - which in another context (i.e it was both sides want)- is a valid type of Fin Dom

28 May 09, 11:13 PM
votre_maitresse
UK(BH), 5 yrs
GoddessSharon wrote:
Princess_of_Subness wrote:
Personally I can't understand why anyone bothers to get actually offended or upset by these things! Male or female! What a bloody waste of energy!

I certainly don't!

xxx

Not every one thinks the same. But what gives people the right to send such a memo!!

im not condoning this behaviour, however, put yourself on the internet and label yourself as 'whatever' and people will write to you, whether you like what is sent you is a different matter, and who can say what intent the message was sent with?? not us!!! if you dont like it, ignore it, rise above it, and remember 'sticks and stones........

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