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Financial Domination (77)

This post is on the Pro-Mistresses etc web board.

8 Jul 09, 4:53 PM
Subfemmepet
UK(NE), 6 yrs

velvet_minx wrote:

A_Bad_Penny wrote:

And the only times I've taken money from the financially submissive, it has been to protect them from greed abuse that was ongoing, to plug the bleed, to coach into taking more care, and ultimately, the fees taken were in payment for time given. This I am happy with. But when they gave the money, they didn't now they would get the time and the care in return, which made them happy.

Penny x (writing in Lady Alpha mode...)

so you've taken money from them to save them from giving money to someone else? How terribly altruistic of you. Sainthood must be impending.

Exactly ! if i could have spelt all those long words...that is exactly what i would have written, gee !!

The road, may be bumpy , but it still leads us to our destination. Love conquers all, and makes the heart come alive

8 Jul 09, 10:11 PM
Mistress_Susan
UK, 4 yrs

what a load of tripe

19 Jul 09, 6:36 PM
moghalman
UK(EC), 12 yrs

Lady_Anna_Bradford wrote:

moghalman wrote:

Lady_Anna_Bradford wrote:

moghalman wrote:

Lady_Anna_Bradford wrote:

Doghouse_Reilly wrote:

Mz_Lucinda_Doys wrote:
Of course their are those insta Dommes who would then try to extort money and in fact some money slaves love that also.

For most of them they gain pleasure knowing that the Dommes buys herself gifts with their money and they like to know what the money has been used for.

But at the end of the day they like and want to be used and abused or they would not contact a fin domme in the first place.

Exactly. It seems odd to me that this concept seems to immoral to some people though. If a guy likes to throw money at a woman who then treats him like a cross between an ATM and a verbal punching bag where's the harm?

Exactly. Why we have to subjected to pseudo-moralistic bullshit though, I don't know.

So what part do morals play? Or is it ok to be amoral?

I think its okay not to patronise the client.

Why do *you* think morals should play a part?

I think it's important to be able to tell right from wrong.

But nobody actually involved in Fin Dom thinks it's wrong - so what's your point?

I never said it was wrong, I do however think the Mistress should look after the slave's interests.

23 Jul 09, 7:46 PM
page_boy
UK(CR), 6 yrs

No way would I let someone get their hands on my package.

Edited 23 Jul 09, 7:47 PM by page_boy

16 Oct 09, 1:12 PM
Moorph
UK(SW), 5 yrs

How do people feel about married sub men or men in a relationship who tribute Financial Dommes?

I guess the risk of being found out or the threat of her being told is part of the thrill, but i imagine the wife would feel she had been betrayed if she found out.

Edited 16 Oct 09, 1:17 PM by Moorph

16 Oct 09, 6:55 PM
MissKimberley
NL, 8 yrs

It's a decision only the sub can take, most men who see PDs are married or in relationships, financial Domme clients are probably no better.

Ofcourse in many cases the wife would feel betrayed if found out, and in cases, quite rightly so. But I don't think people should judge other people's kinks and choices until they've walked a mile in their shoes...

“During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act” - George Orwell

7 Nov 09, 6:34 PM
MistressLornaL
UK(WV), 2 yrs
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I have played around as a Domme now for a year or so and recently decided I would go pro and went into financial domination after talking to a friend at length about it.

I understand it is not for everyone and respect other people's opinions on the matter but one thing i do not agree with is the slating and names a fin domme receives! Like it or not its a growing fetish within the BDSM scene. No one is forced into financial domination they choose that path themselves!

Instead of slating fd's talk to them find out what they do how it works! Many ppl do not understand what goes on with a fd and her slaves but without fully knowing the working of it I think you have no right to slate the people that are involved in it! If you have found out all u can about the matter and still disagree with it then fine you will be respected for that but the need to slate ppl just because they are doing something you disagree with is sad! I disagree with scat and blood sports but would never dream of slagging off those who are into it! Everyone has their own needs and fetishes and that should be respected!

And at the end of the day fd's would not exist if there was not the slaves/clients out there requesting it!

Mistress LornaL BBW Financial Domme