28 May 09, 6:47 PM
lil_Pup
NL, 5 yrs
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SirLashleyS wrote:
Scuse me, but I said 'no problem with those who ain't, so long as they're honest.' A statement devoid of semantics.
Unlike the original post, which was pure semantics. Repeat: Either you're straight or you ain't. And if you ain't, you're on the sliding scale.
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Methinks ye protest too much Sir How can we grow old when we are not trying *The Delays
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28 May 09, 6:49 PM
RopeTopUK
UK(N), 3 yrs
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Jahc99 wrote:
I'm sure there was some commandment about not converting your neighbours arse, as well, sure I read that somewhere.
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Converting it into what, exactly?
A willy warmer?
http://RopeTop.com
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28 May 09, 11:23 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs
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DirtyLittleSlut wrote:
SirLashleyS wrote:
Quote: - Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [I's quite common]
Reply: -
Uhh..? Politely expressed, this notion's a total pile of absolute bollox. YOUR fantasy, maybe, but don't obfuscate (or insult others' intelligence). Either you're straight or you ain't. Full stop. I have no problem with those who ain't, so long as they're honest. ie, admit to being 'not quite straight' on a sliding scale.
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For a man to submit to and serv another man is not an indication that there is a sexual nature to it, so there fore if there is no sex or kissing or anything that could remotly be deamed sexual then two perfectly hetrosexual men could operate in a D/s dynamic and both be straight.
However i do like the idea of a man topping another man for my amusment, and there would be some sexual element to it and i would at least make them kiss each other if not do other rude things to each other 
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Strangely... kissing has not yet been on my list of requirements when two men play. The only ones I have seen play have been straight men - the dynamic of power (control/submission) was clearly evident.
"Truth is stranger than fiction."
Q. What are the components of a good dynamic? A. The mutual desire to share ourselves with each other.
25/05/09 Update. "Action-men party".
Edited 29 May 09, 12:06 AM by chartreuse
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28 May 09, 11:57 PM
Fellatino
UK(M), 5 yrs
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I have the fantasy but don't feel gay.
Maybe it is like horseriding you enjoy the process not the attraction to the being. |
29 May 09, 12:08 AM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs
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chartreuse wrote:
DirtyLittleSlut wrote:
SirLashleyS wrote:
Quote: - Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [I's quite common]
Reply: -
Uhh..? Politely expressed, this notion's a total pile of absolute bollox. YOUR fantasy, maybe, but don't obfuscate (or insult others' intelligence). Either you're straight or you ain't. Full stop. I have no problem with those who ain't, so long as they're honest. ie, admit to being 'not quite straight' on a sliding scale.
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For a man to submit to and serv another man is not an indication that there is a sexual nature to it, so there fore if there is no sex or kissing or anything that could remotly be deamed sexual then two perfectly hetrosexual men could operate in a D/s dynamic and both be straight.
However i do like the idea of a man topping another man for my amusment, and there would be some sexual element to it and i would at least make them kiss each other if not do other rude things to each other
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Strangely... kissing has not yet been on my list of requirements when two men play. The only ones I have seen play have been straight men but, the dynamic of power (control/submission) was clearly evident.
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I do not relish kissing men but when I was younger in my teens after a few drinks a few friends and I used to kiss each other.
Anything to shock really.
It did not take a lot where I grew up.
M
Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
Now I know I'm being used but that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
Cake or Death?
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29 May 09, 12:07 PM
SissySlut_lbwf
UK(E), 4 yrs
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Well I consider myself innatly hetro but open minded enough to see that sex with a man is as gratifying as sex with a woman. And I like to be either top or bottom with another man. -------------------
- Gag me, shag me -
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29 May 09, 1:09 PM
trillium
UK(N), 4 yrs
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If a guy wants to serve another guy with sexual intent (but not necessarily to do anything sexual) that makes them gay or bisexual (or pansexual...etc) in my opinion.
I've come across guys that want to have sex with me and other guys but they say there straight, and then they get annoyed with me when I tell them they can't have sex with guys and be straight. Symbols can never be what it is they represent.
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29 May 09, 1:43 PM
Franklin91
UK(B), 3 yrs |
Jahc99 wrote:
The dynamic of bi or straight guys getting it on, but directed and for the pleasure of dominant women is an interesting one.....
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Just seen the above quote. Jahc99 is absolutely right - carying out services for another male at the direction of a dominant woman is mind-blowing - and thank You to my Mistress for insisting that I did it....twice!
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29 May 09, 11:24 PM
trillium
UK(N), 4 yrs
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david9753 wrote:
As for being straight or not, that's also interesting. I have considered whether my submissive male/male desires are proof that I am in fact gay and I just won't admit it. However I could not imagine an act of lovemaking with another man (nor kissing, nor a relationship) so I guess I am not.
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Your not straight or gay, your bisexual. Love/relationships are different from sex. Symbols can never be what it is they represent.
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30 May 09, 2:12 AM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs
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trillium wrote:
david9753 wrote:
As for being straight or not, that's also interesting. I have considered whether my submissive male/male desires are proof that I am in fact gay and I just won't admit it. However I could not imagine an act of lovemaking with another man (nor kissing, nor a relationship) so I guess I am not.
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Your not straight or gay, your bisexual. Love/relationships are different from sex.
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I would strongly agree with that
M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
Now I know I'm being used but that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
Cake or Death?
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