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Straight Male Fantasy: To serve another male...... (93)

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27 May 09, 10:53 PM
Ms_Tytania
6 yrs
RopeTopUK wrote:
BooteDom wrote:
At it's most basic gay sex involves anal intercourse

Not strictly true, a large percentage of gay men don't do it up the bum (I do, but I'm an old cliché)

Exactly. "At its most basic", (male) gay sex involves sexual activities between men. *Sodomy* doesn't equal *gay*.

Yours,

A. Sodomatrix.

I'm a Genuine Fake.

Edited 27 May 09, 10:54 PM by Ms_Tytania

27 May 09, 11:36 PM
curiouslyanxious_uk
UK(BN), 5 yrs
I'm not sure; at least in my experience, that it's possible to frame this discussion in terms of absolutes. 'Scenes' with experienced, open and trusting partners can be rather fluid and not subject to external definitions of sexuality, or anything else for that matter.

I've found on occasion that previous no, no's, while challenging at the time, can be ultimately very rewarding in the context of a strong D/s relationship.

27 May 09, 11:53 PM
LittleMissEvil
UK(BR), 4 yrs
SirLashleyS wrote:
Quote: - Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [I's quite common]

Reply: -

Uhh..? Politely expressed, this notion's a total pile of absolute bollox. YOUR fantasy, maybe, but don't obfuscate (or insult others' intelligence). Either you're straight or you ain't. Full stop. I have no problem with those who ain't, so long as they're honest. ie, admit to being 'not quite straight' on a sliding scale.

For a man to submit to and serv another man is not an indication that there is a sexual nature to it, so there fore if there is no sex or kissing or anything that could remotly be deamed sexual then two perfectly hetrosexual men could operate in a D/s dynamic and both be straight.

However i do like the idea of a man topping another man for my amusment, and there would be some sexual element to it and i would at least make them kiss each other if not do other rude things to each other :-D

Some people say i am evil, i have no idea why they think that.
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28 May 09, 12:14 AM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs
BooteDom wrote:
There are several aspects to sex.At it's most basic gay sex involves anal intercourse and this doesn't interest me personally.At the other end dominating another male may not actually include a sexual act of any kind.Now,of course, this does not necessarily mean that there is no sexual component to it,it can be very stimulating to see a man immobilised,bound and gagged and completely helpless, knowing that this is your own handiwork.

So I think that it comes down to power.To what extent this equates with sex is debatable.I don't especially care if others label this as "gay".

I agree with this for me it is definitely a power thing, and if this involves sexual acts or not, as part of the dynamic so be it, and if that puts me on a sliding scale then so be it too. I have no problems with my sexuality though when I have disclosed this to past g/f's they have definitely had a problem with it.

The girls are not only more liberated here but positively encouraging which is nice as from past experience it is hard to be this honest sometimes.

M

Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it.
Now I know I'm being used but that's okay cause I like the abuse.
I can resist everything except temptation.
It's always funny until someone gets hurt and then it's just hilarious.
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28 May 09, 12:47 AM
thatboyspike
UK(N), 2 yrs
SirLashleyS wrote:
Ok, spike, obfuscate. Straight, yet not straight..? Contradiction in terms, mate. You're on a sliding scale...

My point was I have never and will never have any kind of sexual attraction towards a man and my limits in any situation when I serve a man will include kissing/romantic play of that ilk.

28 May 09, 9:21 AM
Ceptable
UK(B), 4 yrs

MissFelicity wrote:
Jahc99 wrote:
The dynamic of bi or straight guys getting it on, but directed and for the pleasure of dominant women is an interesting one.....

Oh yes. And one that I fully plan on exploring.

You sound like someone else I know. However, what we're actually having problems with is finding the right other bi- guy. Answers on a postcard...

28 May 09, 10:40 AM
MsSarah
UK(PO), 9 yrs

ummm there is nothing better than to watch and control two males playing together for me its the power exchange and how the "macho" image barrier soon disappers. When toad served me he claimed he was straight and that there would be nothing to take that away from him but with trust and building the realtionship and him wanting to please me he performed and he still loves it now. I once took a sub to a Master blindfolded and then delivered him to the door and made him strip on the door step before entering the house and handed him over, to have that control was so excillerating and to just sit in a chair the whole evening watching whilst drinking a glass of wine or two;) knowing that I had full control.

28 May 09, 12:38 PM
toadxx
5 yrs
MsSarah wrote:
ummm there is nothing better than to watch and control two males playing together for me its the power exchange and how the "macho" image barrier soon disappers. When toad served me he claimed he was straight and that there would be nothing to take that away from him but with trust and building the realtionship and him wanting to please me he performed and he still loves it now. I once took a sub to a Master blindfolded and then delivered him to the door and made him strip on the door step before entering the house and handed him over, to have that control was so excillerating and to just sit in a chair the whole evening watching whilst drinking a glass of wine or two;) knowing that I had full control.

i only wish there had been many more Mistress, and i wish id been that sub and have any male do whatever You wanted to me, i will never be straight again thanks to you it was an honour to be altered that way

28 May 09, 6:33 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs
MissFelicity wrote:
The_Inner_Whore wrote:
And my mind is already on overdrive, imagining you doing faggy things with other pretty switch gentlemen I know... *fans herself* ;-)

Don't, my mind has been there since he first posted on this thread...

Yeah, but I am spoken for, eh? Kinda why it says 'Not looking' on me profile....

I'm sure there was some commandment about not converting your neighbours arse, as well, sure I read that somewhere.

Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
The antidote to whinge threads...?

28 May 09, 6:35 PM
ConsciousnessJunkie
UK(N), 5 yrs

Jahc99 wrote:
Yeah, but I am spoken for, eh? Kinda why it says 'Not looking' on me profile....

I'm sure there was some commandment about not converting your neighbours arse, as well, sure I read that somewhere.

I happen to covert my neighbours arse because he's got a very nice one. Unfortunately he's taken too...

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