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| 27 May 09, 10:53 PM Ms_Tytania 6 yrs |
Exactly. "At its most basic", (male) gay sex involves sexual activities between men. *Sodomy* doesn't equal *gay*. Yours, A. Sodomatrix. I'm a Genuine Fake. Edited 27 May 09, 10:54 PM by Ms_Tytania | ||
| 27 May 09, 11:36 PM curiouslyanxious_uk UK(BN), 5 yrs |
I'm not sure; at least in my experience, that it's possible to frame this discussion in terms of absolutes. 'Scenes' with experienced, open and trusting partners can be rather fluid and not subject to external definitions of sexuality, or anything else for that matter. I've found on occasion that previous no, no's, while challenging at the time, can be ultimately very rewarding in the context of a strong D/s relationship. | ||
| 27 May 09, 11:53 PM LittleMissEvil UK(BR), 4 yrs |
For a man to submit to and serv another man is not an indication that there is a sexual nature to it, so there fore if there is no sex or kissing or anything that could remotly be deamed sexual then two perfectly hetrosexual men could operate in a D/s dynamic and both be straight.
However i do like the idea of a man topping another man for my amusment, and there would be some sexual element to it and i would at least make them kiss each other if not do other rude things to each other Some people say i am evil, i have no idea why they think that. | ||
| 28 May 09, 12:14 AM misfit UK, 3 yrs |
I agree with this for me it is definitely a power thing, and if this involves sexual acts or not, as part of the dynamic so be it, and if that puts me on a sliding scale then so be it too. I have no problems with my sexuality though when I have disclosed this to past g/f's they have definitely had a problem with it. The girls are not only more liberated here but positively encouraging which is nice as from past experience it is hard to be this honest sometimes. M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. | ||
| 28 May 09, 12:47 AM thatboyspike UK(N), 2 yrs |
My point was I have never and will never have any kind of sexual attraction towards a man and my limits in any situation when I serve a man will include kissing/romantic play of that ilk.
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| 28 May 09, 9:21 AM Ceptable UK(B), 4 yrs |
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| 28 May 09, 10:40 AM MsSarah UK(PO), 9 yrs |
ummm there is nothing better than to watch and control two males playing together for me its the power exchange and how the "macho" image barrier soon disappers.
When toad served me he claimed he was straight and that there would be nothing to take that away from him but with trust and building the realtionship and him wanting to please me he performed and he still loves it now.
I once took a sub to a Master blindfolded and then delivered him to the door and made him strip on the door step before entering the house and handed him over, to have that control was so excillerating and to just sit in a chair the whole evening watching whilst drinking a glass of wine or two
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| 28 May 09, 12:38 PM toadxx 5 yrs |
i only wish there had been many more Mistress, and i wish id been that sub and have any male do whatever You wanted to me, i will never be straight again thanks to you it was an honour to be altered that way
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| 28 May 09, 6:33 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Yeah, but I am spoken for, eh? Kinda why it says 'Not looking' on me profile.... I'm sure there was some commandment about not converting your neighbours arse, as well, sure I read that somewhere. Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | ||
| 28 May 09, 6:35 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
I happen to covert my neighbours arse because he's got a very nice one. Unfortunately he's taken too... |