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| 27 May 09, 8:46 PM misfit UK, 3 yrs  |
I have submitted and served another male sexually. This is usually within the dynamic of a couple, whether both Dom/me or one sub. Three has always been the magic number for me. Would I serve another male without the female? Yes if I found them interesting enough. I have already had a similar conversation with someone else within here who was very knowledgeable in this area, and agreed it is a power thing as I do not find men sexually attractive, but find them having power over me extremely exciting. M
Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. Edited 27 May 09, 8:55 PM by misfit | |
| 27 May 09, 9:39 PM SirLashleyS UK(S), 4 yrs  |
Quote: - Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [I's quite common] Reply: - Uhh..? Politely expressed, this notion's a total pile of absolute bollox. YOUR fantasy, maybe, but don't obfuscate (or insult others' intelligence). Either you're straight or you ain't. Full stop. I have no problem with those who ain't, so long as they're honest. ie, admit to being 'not quite straight' on a sliding scale. The silky-smooth soothing voice of reason and logic. (You WILL feel much better and speak far more sense while you're very securely tied-up...) Edited 27 May 09, 9:52 PM by SirLashleyS | |
| 27 May 09, 9:48 PM thatboyspike UK(N), 2 yrs |
I view myself as straight but have served men and will probably in the future. I view my submission first and sexuality second. But I'm never going to claim to be 100% straight however. | |
| 27 May 09, 9:52 PM BooteDom UK(NR), 6 yrs |
There are several aspects to sex.At it's most basic gay sex involves anal intercourse and this doesn't interest me personally.At the other end dominating another male may not actually include a sexual act of any kind.Now,of course, this does not necessarily mean that there is no sexual component to it,it can be very stimulating to see a man immobilised,bound and gagged and completely helpless, knowing that this is your own handiwork. So I think that it comes down to power.To what extent this equates with sex is debatable.I don't especially care if others label this as "gay". | |
| 27 May 09, 9:57 PM SirLashleyS UK(S), 4 yrs |
Ok, spike, obfuscate. Straight, yet not straight..? Contradiction in terms, mate. You're on a sliding scale... The silky-smooth soothing voice of reason and logic. (You WILL feel much better and speak more sense while very securely tied-up...) Edited 27 May 09, 10:25 PM by SirLashleyS | |
| 27 May 09, 10:06 PM BooteDom UK(NR), 6 yrs |
In the end,sliding scale or not,it comes down to semantics. The only implication of arguing this point so vehemently is that there is something intrinsically wrong with not being firmly locked to one end of this sliding scale.In effect saying,"I'm straighter than you are." | |
| 27 May 09, 10:10 PM SirLashleyS UK(S), 4 yrs |
Scuse me, but I said 'no problem with those who ain't, so long as they're honest.' A statement devoid of semantics.
Unlike the original post, which was pure semantics. Repeat: Either you're straight or you ain't. And if you ain't, you're on the sliding scale. The silky-smooth soothing voice of reason and logic. (You WILL feel much better and speak more sense while very securely tied-up...) Edited 27 May 09, 10:22 PM by SirLashleyS | |
| 27 May 09, 10:24 PM Childe_Harold UK, 3 yrs |
Sounds good to me..
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| 27 May 09, 10:38 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
If it's a fantasy... for some it becomes a reality.
I recently enjoyed the experience of two men (one straight Dom and his straight male sub) playing around, watching a male sub serve his Dom in the ways he wanted to be served were not only a real pleasure for me but damned, fucking horny, too.
"Truth is stranger than fiction." | |
| 27 May 09, 10:38 PM RopeTopUK UK(N), 3 yrs |
Not strictly true, a large percentage of gay men don't do it up the bum (I do, but I'm an old cliché)
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