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| Wed 27 May 09, 1:20 PM straight_lad_trainer 3 yrs  |
Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [It's quite common] Are they in denial or is it simply part of a deep need to submit and give pleasure to another [despite their own 'natural' leanings]? Or is there something else going on? There is no one correct answer obviously. Your thoughts please. edited for spelling Edited Thu 28 May 09, 3:19 AM by straight_lad_trainer | ||
| 27 May 09, 4:21 PM SuchGreatHeights UK(SE), 4 yrs |
As progressive as we are this is still a big taboo / boundary for straight men. For men who like humiliation I imagine it would work as a powerful fantasy. | ||
| 27 May 09, 4:49 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs  |
The dynamic of bi or straight guys getting it on, but directed and for the pleasure of dominant women is an interesting one..... Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | ||
| 27 May 09, 4:50 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
Oh yes. And one that I fully plan on exploring. | ||
| 27 May 09, 4:57 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Only explored it in a non-sexual D/s sense, which has been quite interesting, not least because without the sexual aspect the power and control aspects are in particularly sharp relief, somehow. It's kind of curious, that, but for a domly and non-bi sort such as me, the bdsm side of it has had it's own rewards. I'd be useless trying to do it in a sexual way, tried before and I know it wouldn't work. But doing bdsm with other blokes is good - kind of comradely, somehow, even when I am being a sadistic bastard towards them. Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | ||
| 27 May 09, 4:58 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs |
Ah see for me, it would be like when I used to make kissing noises and make my Ken dolls mount each other... Yeah, I was a bit of a sexually aware child. :D | ||
| 27 May 09, 5:25 PM BooteDom UK(NR), 6 yrs |
This one is intrigueing.I get a lot of men who are certainly living straight lives expressing great interest in playing out D/s scenarios,and from how some of them go it's pretty clear that the fascination is not just a shallow,fleeting thing,they really are wired into submission to a man. It doesn't always involve sex though and there are many more facets to it.Fetish is quite a common one.I always dress in boots and leather and this is a big draw,but I suppose fetish is non gender specific to a large extent,it just depends on whether you like feminine or masculine styles.Thinking of things like "tankgirl" there is a potential crossover. | ||
| 27 May 09, 6:03 PM mr_guy UK, 4 yrs |
Been reading this post with interest. Not sure if this is relevant but here's my two cents worth. I am approaching this topic from a sexual angle rather than a purely D/s and non-sexual one. I would say I am a 99% straight male Switch (of the mostly Dom variety) but have been intrigued with the idea of a bi threesome with two guys and a girl for a while now. For some reason the sexual taboo and difference of this setup is quite an interesting and exciting idea and something I'm keen to investigate further. I don't know if that would be in a submissive way (probably not, I would imagine). Maybe my interest here is in wanting to Dom both of them(!) not sure... I don't think I could ever experience anything sexual (or even non-sexual BDSM) with another man one on one but in the context of an MMF group, it seems somehow more 'acceptable' albeit different. Interesting. | ||
| 27 May 09, 7:21 PM silentSmooth UK(HA), 6 yrs |
I think a lots going on. 1. It's humiliating in a yummy way. 2. It's something I've always said I'd never do... Like a major taboo, so it's breaking new ground. 3. I crossdress and see turning on a bloke as an expression of losing my manliness. | ||
| 27 May 09, 7:23 PM Ms_Tytania 6 yrs |
*Straight*? Stop fooling yourselves, boys, and admit you are a bunch of closet fags  I'm a Genuine Fake. | ||
| 27 May 09, 7:29 PM latexmunky UK, 6 yrs |
I admit it, the thought is as sexy as hell. Just a pity that most men are w*nkers. |
