Straight Male Fantasy: To serve another male...... (96)

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Wed 27 May 09, 1:20 PM
straight_lad_trainer
UK(WC), 19 mths
Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [It's quite common]
Are they in denial or is it simply part of a deep need to submit and give pleasure to another [despite their own 'natural' leanings]?
Or is there something else going on?
There is no one correct answer obviously. Your thoughts please.
edited for spelling
Edited Thu 28 May 09, 3:19 AM by straight_lad_trainer

27 May 09, 4:21 PM
lestatdelioncourt
UK(SE), 2 yrs
As progressive as we are this is still a big taboo / boundary for straight men. For men who like humiliation I imagine it would work as a powerful fantasy.

27 May 09, 4:49 PM
Jahc99
UK, 3 yrs
£
The dynamic of bi or straight guys getting it on, but directed and for the pleasure of dominant women is an interesting one.....
Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
The antidote to whinge threads...?

27 May 09, 4:50 PM
MissFelicity
UK(SG), 3 yrs

Jahc99 wrote:
The dynamic of bi or straight guys getting it on, but directed and for the pleasure of dominant women is an interesting one.....
Oh yes. And one that I fully plan on exploring.

27 May 09, 4:57 PM
Jahc99
UK, 3 yrs
£

MissFelicity wrote:

Jahc99 wrote:
The dynamic of bi or straight guys getting it on, but directed and for the pleasure of dominant women is an interesting one.....
Oh yes. And one that I fully plan on exploring.
Only explored it in a non-sexual D/s sense, which has been quite interesting, not least because without the sexual aspect the power and control aspects are in particularly sharp relief, somehow. It's kind of curious, that, but for a domly and non-bi sort such as me, the bdsm side of it has had it's own rewards. I'd be useless trying to do it in a sexual way, tried before and I know it wouldn't work.
But doing bdsm with other blokes is good - kind of comradely, somehow, even when I am being a sadistic bastard towards them.
Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
The antidote to whinge threads...?

27 May 09, 4:58 PM
MissFelicity
UK(SG), 3 yrs

Jahc99 wrote:
Only explored it in a non-sexual D/s sense, which has been quite interesting, not least because without the sexual aspect the power and control aspects are in particularly sharp relief, somehow. It's kind of curious, that, but for a domly and non-bi sort such as me, the bdsm side of it has had it's own rewards. I'd be useless trying to do it in a sexual way, tried before and I know it wouldn't work.
But doing bdsm with other blokes is good - kind of comradely, somehow, even when I am being a sadistic bastard towards them.
Ah see for me, it would be like when I used to make kissing noises and make my Ken dolls mount each other...
Yeah, I was a bit of a sexually aware child. :D

27 May 09, 5:25 PM
BooteDom
UK(NR), 4 yrs
Y!
This one is intrigueing.I get a lot of men who are certainly living straight lives expressing great interest in playing out D/s scenarios,and from how some of them go it's pretty clear that the fascination is not just a shallow,fleeting thing,they really are wired into submission to a man. It doesn't always involve sex though and there are many more facets to it.Fetish is quite a common one.I always dress in boots and leather and this is a big draw,but I suppose fetish is non gender specific to a large extent,it just depends on whether you like feminine or masculine styles.Thinking of things like "tankgirl" there is a potential crossover.

27 May 09, 6:03 PM
mr_guy
UK(SW), 2 yrs

str8lads_n_couples wrote:
Are they in denial or is it simply part of a deep need to submit and give pleasure to another [despite their own 'natural' leanings]?
Or is there something else going on?
Been reading this post with interest. Not sure if this is relevant but here's my two cents worth.
I am approaching this topic from a sexual angle rather than a purely D/s and non-sexual one. I would say I am a 99% straight male Switch (of the mostly Dom variety) but have been intrigued with the idea of a bi threesome with two guys and a girl for a while now. For some reason the sexual taboo and difference of this setup is quite an interesting and exciting idea and something I'm keen to investigate further. I don't know if that would be in a submissive way (probably not, I would imagine). Maybe my interest here is in wanting to Dom both of them(!) not sure...
I don't think I could ever experience anything sexual (or even non-sexual BDSM) with another man one on one but in the context of an MMF group, it seems somehow more 'acceptable' albeit different. Interesting.

27 May 09, 7:21 PM
SilentSmooth
4 yrs I think a lots going on.
1. It's humiliating in a yummy way. 2. It's something I've always said I'd never do... Like a major taboo, so it's breaking new ground. 3. I crossdress and see turning on a bloke as an expression of losing my manliness.

27 May 09, 7:23 PM
Ms_Tytania
UK(E), 4 yrs
*Straight*? Stop fooling yourselves, boys, and admit you are a bunch of closet fags
I'm a Genuine Fake.

27 May 09, 7:29 PM
modelatex
UK, 5 yrs
Y!

str8lads_n_couples wrote:
Straight Male Fantasy: To serve another male......
Straight Male Fantasy: To submit to and serve another male sexually. [I's quite common]
Are they in denial or is it simply part of a deep need to submit and give pleasure to another [despite their own 'natural' leanings]?
Or is there something else going on?
There is no one correct answer obviously. Your thoughts please.

I admit it, the thought is as sexy as hell. Just a pity that most men are w*nkers.

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