| 17 Mar 10, 7:00 PM Adverse_Camber UK, 3 yrs   |
Been meaning to post on here for ages....Now I never, ever perceived IC as a dating site; but more as a resource for learning as much as possible about a world which was very new to me. (Still is, in a lot of ways!) In the little over a year since I have been on here though it has been absolutely brilliant. It has informed, educated, soothed and sometimes annoyed me. But even the now minor negatives are hugely outweighed by the positives. I have met some wonderful, exciting and stimulating people, I have a place to belong finally... My network mainly consists of people who mean an awful lot to me...and two who are extra special. I did not meet my lovely girl on here...but IC gave us a means of re-discovering each other, which is wonderful. And My Special One? Well, IC is wholly, utterly responsible for that. He reached out and I heard him...the one who speaks my language, who completes me...we have looked for each other all our lives and this site helped us to finally end that search. Right finishing now before I puke with all this soppy shite...But thank you IC and thank you Jahc for pointing out that it is largely pretty damn wonderful here. Huggles to all! A_C x "I see the shooting stars falling through your trembling hands..." |
| 1 Apr 10, 4:26 PM Sadistia UK(NG), 10 yrs |
Thanks Jac and thanks IC for being here. IC is so much bigger and more shiny than it was. I have found my partners either here, before that munches and before that irc (before what he did next, which was then this)and before that newsgroups and small ads. I think our munch is much added to by the people who find us through I.C. When looking and not finding, I am badly behaved and have a tendency to start chewing my own arm off. When looking the people who don't work out/ don't turn up, that is down to life and those people, not IC. When the site comes with a guarantee of not meeting any of the wrong people I may try to get my money back, except that we don't have to pay. The site did give me the route to meet the right person, that I met my boy, for that I am very grateful. I find if I don't want to read a thread, no one seems to make me. When I do, it seems there is a good balance of opinion and lots of people taking their time to write thought provoking posts. I have especially loved the "sorry I can't make it" threads. I have had comfort from this community when we have lost people. Thank you Admin, you are appreciated. Sx
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| 24 Aug 10, 8:25 AM Atrebate UK, 3 yrs |
I've been meaning to add my tale to this thread for ages, but haven't had time to write something witty, so might as well just blurt it out. Never intended to use IC as a dating site (real life more promising), but got a memo last March that blew me away. She'd actually joined IC specifically to memo me and waited 7 days worrying that someone else would snap me up (bless her). Spent a few months worrying whether anything so incredibly easy could be love. Moved her in before Christmas. Married by Elvis in a little Las Vegas chapel 3 weeks ago. Looking forward to the birth of our first child. Thankyou IC. Thankyou Tanos. Thankyou Jahc for the thread. Thankyou world. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dbmyryFZ0pg "There's no D/s in Team" (Sparks, V., 2009, pers. comm.) |
