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Gentlemen Pro subs (12)

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Fri 15 May 09, 4:52 AM
tv_Reann
3 yrs
In the discussion on Pro subs Slave50 and I commented on, to use Slave50's description 'Gentlemen Pro subs'. So are there any out there? How do they find customers? Has anyone on here used one? Would you use one?

As a reminder Slave50 wrote Surely there's a 'market' for a 'gentleman' sub who'll turn up on time, be 100 % charming and obedient, discuss the Ladys' requirements, take what the Lady wants to do to him, give Her the pleasure She seeks without trying to get his 'rocks off' , talk inteligently afterwards, and leave without begging to return or pestering Her , ?

And I wrote I suspect that there is a market for the gentleman sub you describe, probably from women in executive roles who may not have the time to trawl through profiles on this or similar sites. The problem would be to get ones services promoted so that it looked like a professional service. In this respect Pro Doms are well catered for.

Edited to add following

The professionalism of the service offered would be the hardest part to get across to potential clients. I all ready have this problem with the construction Service I provide to the BDSM community, people find it hard to believe that all I want to do is to do the work and be paid for it.

15 May 09, 8:02 AM
TVlynn03
UK(CH), 3 yrs

From my own point of view, i get very few calls from females who wish to dominate a male.

I do get calls from females who want to be sub to a male-some just want to experiment,or advice on how to become Pro Subs. The only other calls i receive are from couples who wish to have a joint session,suprisingly it is mostly the male who calls!

One statistic i have noted is,the calls have been in responce to adverts in local papers and not via fetish mags. Therefore as you say its more likly to be a male from an Escort Agency.

One point we must not forget is,the ones who would be interested in a male sub,may not read fetish mags-not everyone knows our world exsists.

One point you raise is very true. A friend of mine is aware of my involment in the adult industry,and he thinks its almost like having an orgy. Infact he cannot not understand the difference between a domination dungeon and a massage parlour.

16 May 09, 4:05 AM
HisHoliness
UK(KT), 6 yrs
Well i know from personal experience that there is a market for pro sub-males. It's obviously smaller than for pro sub-females, but it is there.

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Edited 16 May 09, 10:28 AM by HisHoliness

16 May 09, 6:23 AM
Ms_Tytania
7 yrs
rickinheels wrote:
I suspect that there is a market for the gentleman sub you describe, probably from women in executive roles who may not have the time to trawl through profiles on this or similar sites.

... while the hoi polloi do their man-shopping between washing the dishes, cleaning the toilet and feeding the sprogs. Oh, wait, no: while watching Jeremy Kyle! Those pikey don't do household chores, do they? they are slobs and live on benefits, they have all the time in the world.

How do you think then than people in executive roles find potential partners, paid or not? by asking their secretary to do it for them? Or did their parents arrange their marriage when they were five, to prevent them from marrying a pleb?

I'm a Genuine Fake.

Edited 16 May 09, 6:32 AM by Ms_Tytania

16 May 09, 11:34 AM
Ms_Adventure
UK, 3 yrs
rickinheels wrote:
Gentlemen Pro subs

In the discussion on Pro subs Slave50 and I commented on, to use Slave50's description 'Gentlemen Pro subs'. So are there any out there? How do they find customers? Has anyone on here used one? Would you use one?

While I generally agree with the statement that there is a need for more male submissive's that are dependable and more reliable than the average male sub specimen you find trolling around on the internet. I wouldn't pay for the services as such a person though, but them again I guess I am quiet fortunate to have already made acquaintance with several male submissive's who are impeccable in their presentation and manners.

I would have though maybe such people who would seek such a service may well look more towards male escorts rather than Gentleman pro subs?

17 May 09, 12:05 AM
smokeyslave
3 yrs
part of my lifetime journey as a slave was to serve as a pro male sub whilst searching for a long term Mistress. i advertised on Adultwork.com. Unfortunately over a 1 year period i only had 2 Ladies book me, both were very enjoyable sessions maainly involving spanking humiliation and a lot of face slapping. i think it would be good for Lady to start a maid/slave for hire service, natiowide. Obviously we dont get paid we just enjoy serving
17 May 09, 8:35 AM
TVlynn03
UK(CH), 3 yrs

All respondents to this topic have,highlighted the reasons why you do not see many Pro Subs. One only has look at the web pages of Escort Agengies who provide male escorts-there will be,perhaps two or three males available as opposed to twenty or more females. I know from those who run Escort Agencies in my own area,that males get very little work.

As also stated Pro Mistresses have Subs who they can trust,and would be available if required. A Pro Mistress will also either know of.or have access to switch Pro male Doms to be available.

Another point is,there are numerious males available for free! This works two ways 1) A Dom female is not going to pay a Sub male when she could find one for free 2) A Sub male is of course going to do the same. The only problem with this is,each party has to trust the other! As all serious practitioners of BDSM know-Safety comes first.

17 May 09, 7:46 PM
Mistress_Lady_Julia
UK(LN), 3 yrs
£
Mistresslynntv03 wrote:

Another point is,there are numerious males available for free!

Exactly ...I was quite amazed to see this post as I have subs and slaves aplenty who fit that description and pay ME to serve so why would anyone need to pay for a male slave. I dont intend to offend but the thought of anyone having to pay a male slave/sub seems highly unlikely

Edited 17 May 09, 7:47 PM by Mistress_Lady_Julia

19 May 09, 9:46 PM
blacksheepboy
UK(CR), 4 yrs
HisHoliness wrote:
Well i know from personal experience that there is a market for pro sub-males. It's obviously smaller than for pro sub-females, but it is there.

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19 May 09, 9:48 PM
Ms_Tytania
7 yrs
blacksheepboy wrote:
(comes with FREE moisturiser for a limited period only).

So the sacred man ambrosia *really* is good for the complexion, then? Bring on those facials, I say!

I'm a Genuine Fake.

19 May 09, 10:08 PM
blacksheepboy
UK(CR), 4 yrs
The_Inner_Whore wrote:
blacksheepboy wrote:
(comes with FREE moisturiser for a limited period only).

So the sacred man ambrosia *really* is good for the complexion, then? Bring on those facials, I say!

:-D

Also effective when swallowed (as part of a calorie-controlled diet).

Still no refunds.

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