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Earliest memories of BDSM (54)

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15 May 09, 10:52 AM
CommanderBondage
3 yrs

Altissimus wrote:
Earliest memories of BDSM

Hey,

There's a lot of posts flying around with people talking about how they distinctly remember BDSM-orientated thoughts and desires at very early ages, often prepubescent.

However, the majority of these seem to be female subs. I've just read one that was a female domme, and it got me thinking...is this just a girl thing, or do any men also have BDSM-related prepubescent memories.

So, do you have prepubescent memories? If you do, are you dom or sub, male or female?

And no replies saying "my Dom still acts like a kid - does that count?". I'll make sure he reads 'em.

Thanks,

I went to a mixed boarding school where caning was often used. My first awareness of being aroused from such a humiliating punishment, was when a particularly cheeky female classmate was bent over a desk at the front of the class, her skirt lifted and given six strokes of the cane. Her crying and tears even made it more arousing and it was a good job the class did not have to stand up for some time after !

17 May 09, 1:06 AM
stranger_song
UK, 5 yrs

i can remember my first erection, when i watched a pirate film, with a man stripped and tied to a post and flogged. with a lady watching intently

i was 8 or 9 and can still remember, i was so excited

Edited 17 May 09, 1:08 AM by stranger_song

17 May 09, 1:31 AM
MistressAnath
UK(DN), 5 yrs
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In my garage it is possible to see the Enid Blyton books where I drew pictures of people tied up and gagged inside the fly leaf aged about 5 I think (although never a talented artist, the crapness of the pictures hints at that age)....then there was the hours I'd spend at the library reading about torture at the age of approx. 7....or the thrill of reading about obscure murders when a little older....

And yes, sadistic female

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17 May 09, 3:07 AM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs

MistressAnath wrote:
In my garage it is possible to see the Enid Blyton books where I drew pictures of people tied up and gagged inside the fly leaf aged about 5 I think (although never a talented artist, the crapness of the pictures hints at that age)....then there was the hours I'd spend at the library reading about torture at the age of approx. 7....or the thrill of reading about obscure murders when a little older....

And yes, sadistic female

I had the Murderers Book of Who's Who in my early teens and I have to admit it fascinated me.

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17 May 09, 3:10 AM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs

Desirdero wrote:
I was a precocious reader (Jaws at 6) and loved old etchings of romantic ideals such as the Man in the Iron Mask. Scenes of torture would fascinate me. I was always more inclined towards being subbie in my prepubescent years... but developed a much stronger sadistic taste as I grew up. I can still switch though.

I would say I read Jaws when I was in my mid teens as up until this point the only books I could get my hands on were classics or the bible. All others forbidden in case they corrupted me (ha ha).

Jaws blew my mind especially some of the revelations from Ellen.

Thoroughly enjoyed it and it is far more than the film.

17 May 09, 12:35 PM
Scorpion1811
UK(GL), 3 yrs

Altissimus wrote:
Earliest memories of BDSM

Hey,

There's a lot of posts flying around with people talking about how they distinctly remember BDSM-orientated thoughts and desires at very early ages, often prepubescent.

So, do you have prepubescent memories? If you do, are you dom or sub, male or female?

And no replies saying "my Dom still acts like a kid - does that count?". I'll make sure he reads 'em.

Thanks,

I remember a waking fantasy I had when i was about 11, definietly pre-pubescent. About imprisoning attractive woemn, naked, forced to stand becasue the floor of their cell was covered in upward pointing sharp knife blades. I'm a male dom, but only actually experiencing the lifestyle since I was 55 - long gap!!!

17 May 09, 3:19 PM
Esoteric_Master
UK(M), 3 yrs

My earliest BDSM-related prepubescent memory is Barbara Bach tied to a chair in The Spy Who Loved Me 1977 at the impressionable age of 9.

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17 May 09, 3:36 PM
Jayed
UK(S), 9 yrs

Zorro. A wagon galloping towards a cliff with no driver but a girl bound and gagged in the back, Zorro riding to rescue. That was age 5 or 6 and was the first sign of the lifelong bondage and gag fetish.

Then aged 11, at secondary school. Hearing a boy caned in the corridor and coming into class in tears. That was the first stirring of the caning fetish.

I am happy as a Top, giving the cane to a woman. My main action though, is taking the cane off of men. With me made-up and dressed as the girl.

Don't do much bondage, but occasionally incorporate into a caning scene. certainly love to tie a woman up and cane her.

There ain't no figuring it all out.

jayed

Edited 17 May 09, 3:37 PM by Jayed

17 May 09, 9:37 PM
joe_fing_90
UK(BS), 4 yrs

earliest thing I can think of was when I was about 6 or 7, school playground playing with a girl the year above think her name was simone, the HE man movie had just come out and we where playing me being skelator and her she ra anb both dedcided to recreate the scene where he-man gets kidnapped and whipped. i remember her being against the wall arms and legs out as if tied, and me hitting her with my jumper as a whip. It was the first and only time we ever did anythuing like that again, and while we stayed friends nothing ever happened between us. We then lost contact with each other as she went to a diferent secondary school to me. But I often wonder if she developed into the scene as I did.

18 May 09, 12:18 AM
snuggle_bear
3 yrs

Must have been about 7 or 8 and being obsessed with this girl who lived down my street. Used to pretend that she would kidnap me and make me live in the woods with her. Also, at around the same age i played a game where we would take it in turns to get tied to this chair in a shed. The winner was the one who lasted the longest without crying.

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