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| Mon 11 May 09, 11:14 PM Spangled 3 yrs |
Last Sunday morning, my boyfriend and I had a rather fabulous spanking session.A couple of days later, my boyfriend took great delight in telling me (with a smirk on his face) that his housemate had commented on it. Worse still, his housemate's very sweet and innocent Taiwanese girlfriend had been listening as well, and had asked him "why don't we make noises like that?"! "I don't think you'd like it. You might get hurt" was his response. Very embarassing (and, ok, a bit of a turn on). How does anyone else who doesn't have the luxury of a house to themselves cope with the noise?? Spangle: 2. A small sparkling object | |
| 11 May 09, 11:19 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs     |
Daddy simply has his house mate join in the spanking!!! She is a Mistress and in no other way partakes in any of our play - but he loves the extra degradation that comes with it... XxX | |
| 11 May 09, 11:22 PM Protocol 4 yrs  |
Keep your turnons out of other people's bedrooms imo. If you can't be quiet, at least buy your poor housemates a decent stereo. | |
| 11 May 09, 11:36 PM Spangled 3 yrs |
That sounds like fun! Can't imagine it working in my case however. Oh to live in a house of naughty folks. Spangle: 2. A small sparkling object | |
| 11 May 09, 11:50 PM maya_lila UK(SE), 5 yrs |
Ha. Yeah, I share an apartment with three of my friends and when they're floating around the next room I am SO conscious of this when we do anything- stuff like spanking just sounds so obviously like what it is, lol. Sticking the radio on quite loud can sometimes be good for drowning it all out. Or at least I hope so! Do your boyfriend's housemates not study/work? We all are in and out of our place a lot so in a way we all get a bit of time to ourselves with our respective men on a regular basis, which is nice. "It is never too late to be what you might have been."
~ George Eliot | |
| 12 May 09, 7:53 AM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs       |
I can be quiet, but it feels more natural to let it rip and enjoy my orgasms without holding back. If I know someone is in then I stay quiet but if people are out I'm a noisy little fucker. Only problem is thinking people are out, then realising they're not - makes me squirm with embarrassment. Also, drunkenly waking my mum up whilst shouting at an ex to spank me was *fun* when I was at home one Christmas. CRINGE. x Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections. | |
| 12 May 09, 2:03 PM Glovepuppet UK(GL), 3 yrs |
He has his own place, I'm in a house share. We go there. But it was hugely amusing trying to be bossy and telling Him that He wasn't to slap my arse when staying with some friends of mine. I was very unconvincing and we ended up giggling over my actually fairly real fear that He would just ignore me and do as He wished. As you wish | |
| 12 May 09, 3:16 PM Nemesis_x UK(CF), 3 yrs |
In the beginning we had to be very quiet, as i was living with my mother & (very protective) older brother. It was good for learning orgasm control and for self discipline purposes. Now we have housemates, two young lads. One of their partners told me that when they come home late from friends houses they often hear whips and other strange noises coming from our room... i never know what to say to such comments... so the reply was "..oh" and a swift change of subject. "Opinions are like arseholes, everyones got one and most of them stink" | |
| 13 May 09, 1:58 PM skadii UK(W), 5 yrs |
Actually, don't - after some scientific testing Arrange for your housemates to be out, if necessary with bribery, or go to play clubs. | |
| 13 May 09, 5:19 PM GraemeBD UK(LS), 6 yrs |
I dont mind them banging on the walls myself,( does my ego the world of good) At times I'd like to break you and drive you to your knees
At times I'd like to break through and hold you endlessly *Dan Hill* | |
| 13 May 09, 5:27 PM Hells_Bells UK(G), 7 yrs |
Inconsiderate neighbours/housemates is probably my biggest ever bugbear. I pay good money to live wherever I live, and my life should not be permeated by the sound of people bumping uglies. Either keep it quiet, wait til they've gone out or don't do it at all.
Outside of a dog, a book is a man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read. ~ Groucho Marx |
I can report that a stereo doesn't block the other noises out, it just joins in. A bit like loo freshener sprays don't get rid of unfragrant smells, they just mingle. (Sorry, don't know why that sprang to mind).