male maids (95)

Would that then be a male maid or a butler?

What I meant was, straight women in their predominant numbers favour men who exuberate masculinity (men who are that way not because of "social engineering," as some misguidedly assume, but by way of behavioural instinct honed by years of necessary evolution).

You're still a guy of course, but the image TVs pull off is one that only appeals to a very small market, as the other comments here hint.

When people are obsessed with challenging gender identity and "blurring the lines," as it were, of these roles, I sometimes wonder if it's a matter of ego-stroking and wishful thinking. Yes, some women have a certain preference for men in skirts. But the numbers of these women are probably the same for straight men who have a preference for women who look and act masculine: very small.

Edited 20 Jul 09, 6:00 PM by Swiper

That's about as silly as saying "When [gay] people are obsessed with challenging sexuality I sometimes wonder if it's a matter of ego-stroking and wishful thinking." You seem to be implying that myself and other TVs do this just for the hell of it and to get a rise of out people.

I hope you can understand why I might just be a teensy bit annoyed at that suggestion.

I was required by one domme to wear this uniform as a specific humiliation - she made the point that it would make my role and position clear.

I found it more humiliating to have to work in a maid uniform than in male servant clothing.

That visual is so unappealing it's cringeable!

If I was a domme I'd have you naked and training as a masseuse and if you have to repeat it 1...2....3... with OCD I might even consider switching