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| 20 May 09, 1:18 AM Marie_Fraise UK(E), 3 yrs  |
Some clearly are and each to their own gor'bless em. There are more than you think that like feminised men though. A transvestite or feminised Man can be a beautiful thing if taught and trained right. Marie | |||
| 30 Jun 09, 8:52 PM will_ingtoplease UK(LN), 3 yrs  |
The Maid
not yet so would I be any good , would try my best , fun trying anyway..
few years ago now , being a maid in a sexy, PVC maids outfit ,and peherps , a few added bits and bobs was going to happen, it was sorted but alas never happened , had to move on since, circumstances. But it was a whopping fantasy , and still is , mainly because of the outfit , and you are being of some use to mistress , as a slave and sub, best reason of all, would I feel daft probally at first but ,but that does not matter , quiclky i would get in to the role , and enjoy the whole experience, don't think slaves get the sack , just a whipping if they mess up . and if there lucky, even if they don't mess up that reward still may come ,so what have i got to lose , no I am not trying to convince myself to do it . because I still want to do it one day , or should that be sometime in the future of to put kettle on , bit of practice for that day, maybe make mistress one also if that day comes LOL
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| 1 Jul 09, 12:31 AM BarbieSlutLoki UK(E), 6 yrs |
Lol when is it 'forced' they do it because they're told to, and either they secretly love it or they just like obeying orders
The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club... | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 9:06 AM MistressKarenTvRosie UK(WN), 3 yrs |
We are new here, so please forgive us for adding our view on things. We really think that most TVs start crossdressing at a very early age, and it is something they have very little control over. Rosie, my TV husband, started when he was around ten years old and has done so ever since. Most men have to hide this from their wive's for fear of the marriage breaking up, and so the idea of being a maid to their wife has to stop in their minds - and becomes a fantasy. Rosie has served as a maid for me for many years and has the standard maid type uniform which he does the housework in. I expect him to clean the house from top to bottom and he sees it as a great way of combining his submissive rendancies with his love of dressing. The submissive part, if that is the right phrase, is because men do not usually do the housework, and not in the sense that he is downtrodden. He feels he is being feminine and useful at the same time, something few men with dressing tendancies can experience as society frowns on crossdressers outside of the home or club setting. I get my house cleaned very well and enjoy seeing him so happy in his work, so we are all getting enjoyment from him being a maid. We see adverts on various sites for guys who want to be maids, and they always tend to be 'nude servants' who expect to prance around until the female gets so turned on they ravish the man - ie just a slight twist on swapping. The next type is the miad who who just dresses in a maid's outfit for photographs to look pretty and fit the stereotypical view of a sissy man, and would die if asked to clean out a loo. So yes, as one member stated, there are few real TV maids around, but they do exist and I am blessed to have one. I would take on a female maid to assist him if I could find one so that they could clean the house together as a sub team, but they are so hard to find. I, for one, would also be willingly lend out my sub maid to anyone who was wanting their house cleaned and would get enjoyment from seeing him in his maid's uniform, but they are few and far between. I hope that my views can give some insight into of a wife/TV/maid relationship that has lasted over 40 years, and is hopefully still going on to pastures new. It is our first post and I look forward to seeing what people think of our ideas on the subject. Mistress Karen | |||
| 1 Jul 09, 11:17 AM toadxx 5 yrs |
it doesnt make me more submissive but wearing what the Domme requires me to to do the chores does, if its a maids outfit, fine. i just love being a domestic help to the right lady | |||
| 5 Jul 09, 7:51 PM Purrverse US, 7 yrs |
It'd depend on the man's clothes. I'd feel humiliated being forced to leave the house in clothes that don't match, or huge sweatpants, or sportswear, or something with stains on it. ::Grin:: Anyway. I love male service submissives. I don't tend to like the ones who want to wear frills because they tend to be less interested in cleaning and more interested in flouncing, which is useless and then involves me cleaning AFTER their cleaning. No, I prefer submissives who genuinely enjoy the serene state you can enter through repetitive work- as a sometime service submissive myself, I tend to be pretty careful about who I invite into my home for that sort of play. And I'm also careful that what they want to get out of it is along the same lines as what I want to offer- the guy who said he wanted a caning as a reward for good work, but who then demanded a hand job, definitely turned me off and made me feel put upon. I prefer submissives to men looking for fantasy fulfillment- I want them to want to please *me*, not just want some random woman to order them around. I want it to be personal. edited to add: That said, I don't really mind what they want to wear, as long as it's practical for cleaning! "I can't tell if you're playing some kind of feminazi mind fuck game on me or if you're trying to seduce me." -Sex and Death 101 Edited 5 Jul 09, 7:55 PM by Purrverse | |||
| 11 Jul 09, 6:00 PM michelletv UK(TS), 9 yrs |
Well I have always felt more sub when dressed (not neccesarily as maid) doing maids work is great fun unless in pvc maids costume big wig makeup ect you find yourself dripping in sweat ironing or cooking 
Everyone should try crossdressing at least once if only to see if it makes you feel more domme (women in power suits hmmmm) more dom or more sub as case may be or you may just feel silly ... I think theres a lot more closet trannys out there than we think am sure we all know family ,freinds and work colleagues who seem to enjoy crossdressing for fancy dress parties ect..... | |||
| 20 Jul 09, 12:35 PM Swiper 5 yrs |
I should imagine that most of the time most *straight* women prefer their guys to be guys no matter the lifestyle inclination, whether BDSM or vanilla etc. | |||
| 20 Jul 09, 12:37 PM ConsciousnessJunkie UK(N), 5 yrs  |
I would be quite interested in exploring the male maid thing but without the feminisation. What about a male maid in a pair of tight jeans and no shirt scrubbing the floor and doing the washing up? Sounds like absolute flippin' heaven to me! Yes... I think I could live with that. www.felicityfatale.co.uk ~ Fun Photography | |||
| 20 Jul 09, 12:53 PM Christina1394 UK(BS), 3 yrs |
Essentially this is correct, although there are clearly more women who enjoy the fetishistic (Male maid, sissy etc.) side of things within the BDSM community than the 'nilla community! If I was the sensitive type I'd also take offence at the suggestion that as a TV I am not a "guy"! |
