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| 18 May 09, 12:08 PM CommanderBondage 3 yrs  |
Well I must definately be in need of some instruction then, because my tool box is a mess, my nails are bent, my nuts are rusty and my bolts don't sparkle any more ! | ||
| 18 May 09, 12:17 PM Grownup_Frankie UK, 3 yrs  |
But, on the plus side, you do have a very BIG, well equiped toolbox (I've seen it) (in a perplexing, faintly taboo way I've even envied it)...and, lets not forget - the shed is up!
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| 18 May 09, 6:50 PM Degenerate  UK(M), 4 yrs   |
Ah, a maid and a handyman, what more could a domme ask for - didn't know you were coming back Grownup_Frankie! De Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk | ||
| 18 May 09, 7:09 PM CommanderBondage 3 yrs |
Two maids,two handymen and a bottle of champagne perhaps? | ||
| 19 May 09, 1:39 AM Degenerate UK(M), 4 yrs |
It is funny how happy just reading those words makes me feel. De Sign up to CAAN's statement www.caan.org.uk | ||
| 19 May 09, 1:54 AM Marie_Fraise UK(E), 2 yrs |
There are a lot more than you think; I think a great deal of Dominas who enjoy feminised men, much prefer practical and less fantasy-based clothing. The "Sissy" frocks and paraphanalia leave me cold. Marie | ||
| 19 May 09, 3:10 AM dahlgren_sb 4 yrs |
Of course if she wants to give a reward for work well done, that is even better, but I wouldn't expect it. Intentionally doing poor work to provoke punishment may be a fun game if both are playing. Otherwise it just makes it hard for the rest of us to be taken seriously.
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| 19 May 09, 3:39 PM Christina1394 UK(BS), 2 yrs |
You say that, yet most Dommes I've spoken with (here and IRL) are put off by the fact that I am a TV. I don't just mean "I'm a sissy": that is one of the things I enjoy BDSM wise, but outside of that I am also a transvestite. Very few Dommes are interested in feminine men at all, in my experience.
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| 19 May 09, 3:57 PM Zoebabes 5 yrs |
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| 19 May 09, 7:45 PM WimpeyBoy UK, 4 yrs |
I don't consider myself to be in any way 'feminine' or to have a 'feminine side' as such, and yet cross-dressing in a session really hits the spot for me. Many Dommes require their subs to wear a collar as a symbol of their servitude. My preference is to be made to wear a bra. Don't get me wrong Ladies (he said, ducking for cover!), this is not because I see the bra (or any other female clothing for that matter) as a symbol of servitude. Far from it! I don't see it as 'feminisation', but as a simple, straightforward way to strip a sub of any lingering trace of masculinity for the duration of a session. For me it sets the tone for the D/s relationship in the same way as a collar might do for other subs. Full cross-dressing also plays a part in my sub world. It is a profound act of submission; it takes away a sub's identity; it allows the Domme (if She is so inclined) to reaffirm that She can do whatever She likes with Her sub. This process does not necessarily have to be ritualised into 'maid service', or involve fancy dress style outfits. For example, I recall one session with a Domme a few years ago. She dressed me in 'smart secretary' attire, make-up, the works, and forced me out the door to the off-licence on my own to buy booze. I had know idea She had colluded with the shop owners, who She knew well. Imagine my squirming embarrassment...! |
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