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| 16 May 09, 9:23 AM maid_irene UK(LN), 6 yrs   |
Undoubtedly, flat shoes and a Linen uniform/cap/apron for daily work. Parties are a different thing though, full sissy, high heels and lots of curtseys. Hugs, Irene.
"Service which is rendered without joy helps neither the servant or the served. But all other pleasures and possessions pale into nothingness before service that is rendered in a spirit of joy." | ||
| 16 May 09, 11:19 AM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
We've had both male and female, well, domestic servants, rather than the strict category of maid. There's generally a service element to subbing to either or both of us. I'd like to ask people how many are detered by the idea of serving a couple? Some of the guys have tried to insist that I not be there, in other words, leave my own house before they will serve my Lady. Which I can't say I am prepared to do, if I'm there I am there, though time alone is cool, of course, but that is a collective arrangement, not something which is going to be dictated by the 'submissive'. And whether people see the dressing up side, or the service, as more important? Or is it the reward, whatever that might be? And if there is outdoor work, where civvies are essential, whether that work would be done? My own service side, basically does its best to do what its told, when its told, wearing what it is told. And would be happy to have another serve alongside me, too. Ho hum, too many questions! Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | ||
| 16 May 09, 1:06 PM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs  |
I have yet to experience a male-maid however... I love to have male domestic servants.  "Truth is stranger than fiction." | ||
| 17 May 09, 3:43 AM misfit UK, 3 yrs |
I do not blame you for not wanting to leave your own house. I am not deterred by the idea of serving a couple at all. M Space travels in my blood. And there ain't nothing I can do about it. | ||
| 17 May 09, 8:16 AM lisal 8 yrs |
Hiya To the first question - that would be me!! . My D/s works completely on fem dom and I have no real interest in serving a male. Which means, if I was looking for someone, I'd be clear about that from the start and not answer ads from couples As to the dressing up side I guess I see that as more important. It fits in with the role and the game we are playing at the time...
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| 17 May 09, 8:45 AM Princess_Rebecca UK(EN), 5 yrs |
I have done some work for a couple and enjoyed it; in another situation I did some work for a Domme who lives with another Dom, although they generally keep their play partners separate so I was there for her only (not that I would have had any objections to being there for both..!)
For me, it's the service, and a slightly selfish element of needing to be kept busy. I have worked in vanilla dress both indoors and out - the latter to help with some gardening and woodwork. | ||
| 17 May 09, 11:31 AM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Ta, and to others. Probably deserves a seperate thread really, don't want to hi-Jahc. But one quick thought - it doesn't mean serving both, neccessarily. The bloke might be busy with other stuff, in my case, hanging pretty women from the ceiling and all that. It's more not objecting to the other half being around - sometimes I'll be busy doing the cooking and wot not leaving Her and him to play. Another area where experience has been the girls who serve me never have a problem, treat the Lady of the household with respect and friendship, and we all just get on with it. Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | ||
| 17 May 09, 11:52 AM lisal 8 yrs |
Sure That's a different issue - if the guy is around but not involved in the play I'd be fine with it. It would make a good topic. You start it and I'll follow.. after my upcoming liquid lunch which might make my replies a tad interesting!!!
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| 17 May 09, 12:03 PM maid_felicity2 UK(B), 6 yrs |
Hi, Personally I feel more submissive when I'm in petticoats for some reason. I can't explain why and it's not like I'm not submissive out of them but they have a definite effect on me. I've enjoyed reading the posts and it seems like the sissy maid does have place in bdsm after all! felicity maid x
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| 17 May 09, 12:17 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Has that ever been in doubt? Not everyone's cup of cocoa, and misunderstood in some quarters, no doubt, but as much a part of the whole thing as anything else. I've also enjoyed reading the various posts - I think that whatever your thing, understanding others can but benefit. Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? |
Seems we think rather alike! ==>>