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Being Outed - Rant.... (9)

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Posted by Capt_Jacks_Coat on Tue 5 May 09, 6:11 PM to Capt_Jacks_Coat's blog.

Well.. That was a shocker!!!!

Someone outed me to my ex, my mini me's dad... that was nice of them. Lucky it kind of back fired and he accepts my version of things and reassurances.. Not that I am doing anything wrong!!!! Yet he is old fashioned in his way of thinking and made me feel like I have done something wrong!!

I would like to say that if the bastard or bitch is reading this who did it I would love to have some serious words with you! You are a coward! You make me sick you are so cowardly!

Then again thinking about it, it must be someone quite close. Someone who knew my ex's phone number...

Got to play detective.. Find out who did it..

Anyone on here that could help me (doubt it though) would be appreciated..

Replies

5 May 09, 6:29 PM
moriganna
UK, 3 yrs

I'm sorry to hear this hun, as you say, it's cowards and seriously twisted, I was going to say human beings but that hardly seems appropriate, who do that sort of things.

I'm glad that you smoothed things out with your ex, unfortunately this sort of thing will now make you uncomfortable round those you thought you could trust for awhile.

Try not to let it affect you that way too much, there is only one tainted apple there.

*Hugs*

5 May 09, 6:32 PM
Bellatrix_LeStrange
UK, 6 yrs
Bastards :(

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/westlondonmunch/
M: Its only a baby needle, you wont know the difference. I am not a one dimensional needle obssessed domme...
J: Its going to be about sutures isnt it?

5 May 09, 8:17 PM
Visualize
4 yrs
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I hope you do find out who it was.

What a shitty thing to do :(

Take care and remember that for every shit there are 20,000 nice people, most of them on IC :)

5 May 09, 8:24 PM
mia*
UK(M), 4 yrs



I hope you find out who it was. Fucking shit people deserve to be found out, and that person sounds like a fucking shit.

x

PS - sorry for the language, I just really REALLY hate people who out people!

Let's talk about how much you like me and all that...

5 May 09, 8:48 PM
Capt_Jacks_Coat
6 yrs
Thank you everyone.. for your support..

I wont let it bother me that much since my sis already outed me a few years back to my mum!

It was the shock of getting the phone call from my ex today... am feeling better now..

Am going to reconstruct my profile because as a knee jerk action I deleted everything on it.. Now I dont care.. much..

Anyone else gone through the same thing???

Robyn

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5 May 09, 9:19 PM
The_Colonel_Whatwhat
3 yrs
That really was a horrible thing for them to do.

Oh well, once the the facts are out they are out. You never need worry about that again :)

I came, I saw, I concurred

5 May 09, 9:21 PM
Capt_Jacks_Coat
6 yrs
thats true... didnt think of it that way..:)

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5 May 09, 9:55 PM
whaplodedave
UK(PE), 5 yrs
sorry to hear your bad news ,

hugs :)

6 May 09, 8:23 AM
Iphis_me
UK(E), 4 yrs

Gothic_Lady_Robyn wrote:

Anyone else gone through the same thing???

What a shitty thing to do, I hope you find out who it was (and then kick their arse like they deserve!). Doing this could have caused you real problems with your ex - fortunately it's turned out ok but whoever did it couldn't have known that.

I actually came out to my ex (my daughter's dad), which was easier in a way because I could choose how I did it, and I was pretty sure he would be cool about it. It makes life easier in a lot of ways not to feel you have to hide so there's a positive from all this!

"That hurts......please don't stop!"

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