Are there really pro-subs? (92)

There's pro subs and pro spankees - spankees usually get their bottoms spanked, paddled, slippered and caned along CP lines. Submissives are a lot rarer and we offer full BDSM play along with the CP practices. Most pro spankees & pro subs of which their are roughly around 70 odd full time in the UK do not offer any sexual services. There are also escorts who offer spanking. Most of us also offer switching as a lot of the CP clients ask for it, it is very rare that you get a BDSM client wanting to switch. Many CP clients like roleplay in either a school, office or domestic scene and setting. There is a lot more call for CP than there is BDSM play.

I'll take a lot more pain from a client who I gel with who I can submit myself too, but you have to enjoy pain and be a natural sub to start with. One hour of spanking, paddling, flogging and caning is a lot, especially with a client who just wants to whack whack whack with no let up! And it's not like playing with your own dom who knows what you like and how you like it, you have to do what the client wants and hope that he's not too hard on you and if so can accept he needs to slow down or hit less hard.

There isn't enough money in it for my to accept massive canings, I'll do hard flogging and spanking, but not hard paddling and caning or I'm so bruised and sore I can't work, some subs will offer it BUT will charge heavily. I can always turn down a client who asks for hard caning or sex etc and I've had to stop clients who've caned my thighs, paddled the small of my back etc and have a polite word!

Good call, my nature does demand and I like being in a full bdsm relationship as I need pain and to me more extreme pain from my Master n Mistress is in my eye more fulfulling for me and I feel I am pleasing them more when pushing my limits, although I enjoy doing vanilla things with my Master and Mistress I do love our play sessions.

It's a valid and interesting question, withering responses are reserved for stupid questions lol!

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I can assure you that out of the 70 odd pro spankees and subs working full time in the UK although many of us switch we are nearly all submissives who switch and there are extremely few who advertise as dommes who switch, Mistress Alina is one of the few.

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Yes I've been away for bank hol.

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Don't know of anyone charging those prices, even Buffy at the Manchester Dungeon is cheaper that that though she does charge more for a heavy caning as she can take it, BUT note a heavy caning she can't work for days afterwards.

I've got a photo of me with a completely black and yellow bottom from a severe paddling which I charged good money for where I could not work for 12 days afterwards and even then there was still bruising left, the photo was already removed on another website and I actually don't wish to offer that service anyway so not much point in posting it even if it was approved on ic!

Pure cash - no definitely not! You HAVE to enjoy the job or all the new girls that advertise would not disappear again after only a few weeks! Or cry when they do their first DVD shoot and have to stop.

The cash is good but we are worth it for what we go through!

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You've obviously not seen me!

Or Bad Penny.

Or Buffy.

Or Georgie Ryder.

Or Miss Wynter, or Donna, or Lesley Rose.

I could go on and on!

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I expect if there are any male ones it will be in the gay world because I can't see a woman paying to domme when there are so many willing male subs around.

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Surely there's a 'market' for a 'gentleman' sub who'll turn up on time, be 100 % charming and obedient, discuss the Ladys' requirements, take what the Lady wants to do to him, give Her the pleasure She seeks without trying to get his 'rocks off' , talk inteligently afterwards, and leave without begging to return or pestering Her , ?

Edited 5 May 09, 6:59 AM by mr_nicholas

Yes. It's called visiting a Pro-Domme, and treating Her with respect.

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I suspect that there is a market for the gentleman sub you describe, probably from women in executive roles who may not have the time to trawl through profiles on this or similar sites. The problem would be to get ones services promoted so that it looked like a professional service. In this respect Pro Doms are well catered for.

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The professionalism of the service offered would be the hardest part to get across to potential clients. I all ready have this problem with the construction Service I provide to the BDSM community, people find it hard to believe that all I want to do is to do the work and be paid for it.

Edited 5 May 09, 8:13 AM by tv_Reann