A Little Clarity (6)

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Posted by Call_Me_Harmony on Fri 24 Apr 09, 11:12 AM to Call_Me_Harmony's blog.

Dear rumour mill, much as you may be interesting at times, you get things wrong to such an extent that it is laughable.

This weekend I had a fantastic weekend what with Oblivion and then the rope workshop.

I get home to find that questions have been asked of other clan members as to who Harmony was with at the rope workshop.

Gossip seems to be rife because I am out and about and active again on the scene much more than I was for a while.

So let's be clear, partnership has become friendship and housesharing. Kind of sad, but amicable, working together to build a new basis, not acrimonious (well rarely, we're all human and everyone has the need to have the odd rant occasionally).

As the rest of the clan are no longer my partners it is not up to them to keep tabs or report on my behaviour to other people. Ok so I do tend to tell them where I am going and with whom but that is a matter of politeness and respect.

Therefore if anyone wants to know who I am with, what I am doing and with whom the way to do that is to ask me, not the people I live with.

And yes whilst we're at, it I have been seen out and about with the same person on several occasions. This does not mean that we are suddenly an item.

There are two people I spend time on the scene with at the moment. Both are friends both are fun to play with. Yes, it is possible to do this BDSM thing with someone without it becoming a deep intense relationship.

There are others I play with off scene. Strange as it seems I am not looking to jump headfirst into new partnership relationships. I am spending time having fun, playing distraction therapy, keeping it light.

It works for me and to be blunt it is absolutely nobody else's business. But really if you absolutely desperately need to know why not just ask me?

No guarantees you'll get an answer but much more likely than asking anybody else. Stop bothering my friends, stop bothering my housemates, just come straight to the source.

*cross posted to my LJ

Edited to add a little punctuation.

Edited Fri 24 Apr 09, 11:21 AM by Call_Me_Harmony

Replies

24 Apr 09, 12:05 PM
slutling_angel
4 yrs

It works for me and to be blunt it is absolutely nobody else's business. But really if you absolutely desperately need to know why not just ask me?

slutling_angel wrote:

I think your absolutely right, with the above statement.

When I was single I played publicly with different people. It's how I handled it. 'Having fun while also getting a buzz'. It was not sexual. Unfortunately many forget the latter!!

Continue having fun. Just be you

My submission is not a gift.
It is how my body and mind reacts to you.
And it is free for you to do what ever you wish with it.

24 Apr 09, 1:31 PM
crystaltips
UK(S), 5 yrs

Dont know who he is but have to say he looked pretty good to me - i like my eye candy to have an air of mystery - dont you go spoiling it just yet!

24 Apr 09, 7:49 PM
kisses_for_me
UK, 5 yrs

So is it true you are really topping admin now????????

It's easy to tell the difference between right and wrong. What's hard is choosing the wrong that's more right. Elise Kraft, The Siege.
People really need protecting from those who want to protect them.

24 Apr 09, 9:51 PM
Call_Me_Harmony
UK(CB), 5 yrs

kisses_for_me wrote:
So is it true you are really topping admin now????????

I think I might just have noticed if I was