Tue 21 Apr 09, 6:07 PM
JennyM
UK, 4 yrs |
An oxymoronic blend of 21st century equality and a reverse 1950s household led by a female head who has the final word, but also shares the responsibility to behave in a loving way, one that takes into account the needs and desires of both. It isn't fair, but it is considerate, thoughtful and sensitive. Both work towards their own and each others' fulfilment as much as possible in terms of family, friends, working life, health, cultural, intellectual and spiritual nurturing, stimulating debate, mutual interests, everything good about good relationships of any kind – but always present somewhere is the dynamic of loving authority and willing submission. Discipline, S/m, moments found for a wanted kind of sometimes-extreme cruelty or demanded floor-bellied subservience, restraint, feminisation, sensory deprivation, service - domestic and sexual, caging, fetters, a dog-house…
Small but powerful symbols of the household quietly claiming their space: A cane hanging on the back of the door, a chain locked onto and tucked under the foot of the bed.
A change of tone which brings instant compliance. Lip-biting moments of frustration, a sometimes-supressed will leading to acceptance of the most difficult and demanding challenges.
Good, honest two-way communication that doesn't fade with time.
Enduring fun.
To your mind, and in your experience, is this a romantic ideal, a wanky-woman fantasy or something that could be possible?
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21 Apr 09, 6:11 PM
stormywaters
PT, 4 yrs |
JennyM wrote:
Losing grasp of reality?
An oxymoronic blend of 21st century equality and a reverse 1950s household led by a female head who has the final word, but also shares the responsibility to behave in a loving way, one that takes into account the needs and desires of both. It isn't fair, but it is considerate, thoughtful and sensitive. Both work towards their own and each others' fulfilment as much as possible in terms of family, friends, working life, health, cultural, intellectual and spiritual nurturing, stimulating debate, mutual interests, everything good about good relationships of any kind – but always present somewhere is the dynamic of loving authority and willing submission. Discipline, S/m, moments found for a wanted kind of sometimes-extreme cruelty or demanded floor-bellied subservience, restraint, feminisation, sensory deprivation, service - domestic and sexual, caging, fetters, a dog-house…
Small but powerful symbols of the household quietly claiming their space: A cane hanging on the back of the door, a chain locked onto and tucked under the foot of the bed.
A change of tone which brings instant compliance. Lip-biting moments of frustration, a sometimes-supressed will leading to acceptance of the most difficult and demanding challenges.
Good, honest two-way communication that doesn't fade with time.
Enduring fun.
To your mind, and in your experience, is this a romantic ideal, a wanky-woman fantasy or something that could be possible?
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Oh I do hope it's possible, you make it sound so good because you are so clear and honest about what you want. With that clarity, self awareness and honesty, if there is any justice in this world it bloody well ought to be possible.
Although you must allow for the fact that, like every life, into every relationship, a little rain must fall.
(Love the cane hanging up behind the kitchen door.) To advertise here phone 02477 562966
Edited 21 Apr 09, 6:12 PM by stormywaters
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21 Apr 09, 6:13 PM
Beau_Tox
UK(CB), 7 yrs
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JennyM wrote:
Losing grasp of reality?
To your mind, and in your experience, is this a romantic ideal, a wanky-woman fantasy or something that could be possible?
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*steps aside, to avoid the rush of subs*
A fap-fantasy, definitely. But I would say for the boys, not for wanky-women. 
I don't see why it's unfeasible. There's nothing extreme in what you suggest. Sounds like femdom heaven for lots of men. * * *
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"You and me, we can light up the cheese, if you'll stay by me please, we can roule the world."
Take That: Stardust
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21 Apr 09, 6:14 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs
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Sounds familiar! Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
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21 Apr 09, 6:22 PM
condemned
UK(M), 11 yrs
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It actually sounds very feasible and with enough input and discussion as to how things would work and evolve i see no reason why it couldn't be reality.
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21 Apr 09, 6:30 PM
Red_Spark
UK(LE), 5 yrs
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I think it's possible. Absolutely. "Be quiet and come with me. I won't betray you."
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21 Apr 09, 6:30 PM
Scorpionic
UK(BN), 6 yrs
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Aww... those words made me shrug, day-dream, drift, sigh and smile.
Most of us have some "ideals" of what we would like to attain within relationships - whether we admit it or kid ourselves that we don't.
The optimist in me feels that anything is possible if those involved have the same ideology.
I hope you find what you need to build what you hope for. 
JennyM wrote:
Losing grasp of reality?
An oxymoronic blend of 21st century equality and a reverse 1950s household led by a female head who has the final word, but also shares the responsibility to behave in a loving way, one that takes into account the needs and desires of both. It isn't fair, but it is considerate, thoughtful and sensitive. Both work towards their own and each others' fulfilment as much as possible in terms of family, friends, working life, health, cultural, intellectual and spiritual nurturing, stimulating debate, mutual interests, everything good about good relationships of any kind – but always present somewhere is the dynamic of loving authority and willing submission. Discipline, S/m, moments found for a wanted kind of sometimes-extreme cruelty or demanded floor-bellied subservience, restraint, feminisation, sensory deprivation, service - domestic and sexual, caging, fetters, a dog-house…
Small but powerful symbols of the household quietly claiming their space: A cane hanging on the back of the door, a chain locked onto and tucked under the foot of the bed.
A change of tone which brings instant compliance. Lip-biting moments of frustration, a sometimes-supressed will leading to acceptance of the most difficult and demanding challenges.
Good, honest two-way communication that doesn't fade with time.
Enduring fun.
To your mind, and in your experience, is this a romantic ideal, a wanky-woman fantasy or something that could be possible?
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>;;;;--*
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21 Apr 09, 6:34 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs
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I think... if the people within the relationship share the same ideals it is entirely possible to make the dream the reality. "Truth is stranger than fiction."
"It is better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not."
Click here for a link to "Bi Action-men" Party. Apply within. 
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21 Apr 09, 6:38 PM
syndeetoo
UK(WC), 6 yrs
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I think it would work best in a 50s house. Victorian gothic or 30s suburban aint gonna cut it. Here in the bipolar ward if you shower you get a gold star, but I'm not going far till the Haldol kicks in-until then, until then-I'm strapped to this fucking twin bed and I won't get any cookies or tea till I stop quoting Nietzsche and brush my teeth and comb my hair. (Rennie Sparks)
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21 Apr 09, 6:42 PM
JennyM
UK, 4 yrs |
syndee wrote:
I think it would work best in a 50s house. Victorian gothic or 30s suburban aint gonna cut it.
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I've failed already then! |
21 Apr 09, 6:43 PM
JennyM
UK, 4 yrs |
stormywaters wrote:
JennyM wrote:
Losing grasp of reality?
An oxymoronic blend of 21st century equality and a reverse 1950s household led by a female head who has the final word, but also shares the responsibility to behave in a loving way, one that takes into account the needs and desires of both. It isn't fair, but it is considerate, thoughtful and sensitive. Both work towards their own and each others' fulfilment as much as possible in terms of family, friends, working life, health, cultural, intellectual and spiritual nurturing, stimulating debate, mutual interests, everything good about good relationships of any kind – but always present somewhere is the dynamic of loving authority and willing submission. Discipline, S/m, moments found for a wanted kind of sometimes-extreme cruelty or demanded floor-bellied subservience, restraint, feminisation, sensory deprivation, service - domestic and sexual, caging, fetters, a dog-house…
Small but powerful symbols of the household quietly claiming their space: A cane hanging on the back of the door, a chain locked onto and tucked under the foot of the bed.
A change of tone which brings instant compliance. Lip-biting moments of frustration, a sometimes-supressed will leading to acceptance of the most difficult and demanding challenges.
Good, honest two-way communication that doesn't fade with time.
Enduring fun.
To your mind, and in your experience, is this a romantic ideal, a wanky-woman fantasy or something that could be possible?
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Oh I do hope it's possible, you make it sound so good because you are so clear and honest about what you want. With that clarity, self awareness and honesty, if there is any justice in this world it bloody well ought to be possible.
Although you must allow for the fact that, like every life, into every relationship, a little rain must fall.
(Love the cane hanging up behind the kitchen door.)
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I didn't specify which door, but now you mention it... kitchen seems most appropriate!
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