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Dominate's Creed (33)

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21 Apr 09, 9:21 PM
stormywaters
PT, 4 yrs

sublima_pink_tigress wrote:
A responsible dom should, when asked, make coffee for his/her sub without putting said sub over his/her knee and leathering them

Be quiet. You're gagged and in no condition to drink anything.

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22 Apr 09, 7:23 AM
littlemissanna
UK(NW), 5 yrs

Susan_Williams wrote:

misfit wrote:

MistressLadyAnna wrote:
...and if the Dominant doesn't use safewords?

Now that is scary

I have very rarely had a safe word. The only time I have had a safe-word was when playing with someone new. Once a degree of trust and understanding had been established then they were discarded.

My Mistress doesn't use them ever and relies an her own intuition as to when I have had enough. She has never been wrong yet.

It is all a matter of trust and when that trust is absolute then safe words become an unnecessary hindrance.

A very good point! And a style of dominance I use with my submissive. I think after a year and a half of play, I know his limits and his behaviour, as well as his emotional and physical responses.

I think that safewords can even be dangerous, because in my experience many subs dont want to let their Dom/mes down, or have a certain degree of pride regarding 'not giving in'. It gives the submissive the choice, even if their pride might get in the way, when sometimes I think that is a decision better left to the dominant that knows them, understands them and is utterly trusted by them. Not to mention, for instance, can see the state their backside is post caning.

22 Apr 09, 7:33 AM
misfit
UK, 3 yrs

TheDesiredEffect wrote:

misfit wrote:

MistressLadyAnna wrote:
...and if the Dominant doesn't use safewords?

Now that is scary

Oh Cinds! Safewords? Are they not those words that people decide on beforehand, then cannot remember when they are are in the depths of fear/anguish/pain and ecstasy all at the same time?

Safewords, ermmm...

I have a very good memory and like the illusion of security but I agree it would be different if I knew someone well and there was trust, but I rarely disclose the real me. It only leads to disappointment (he he).

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