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fem sub, Domme or lesbian? (44)

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3 Apr 09, 7:01 PM
rubesque
UK, 4 yrs

I think that this is one of those situations you have to sit back and allow to 'evolve'. Until you are in the moment, who knows where it will lead; and quite frankly, who cares!

If two people meet (in this case, Women) the dynamic will be born all of it's own. I do guarantee though that pleasure for all parties will come from just letting it be.

Sit back, watch, and allow it to just....be.

Have fun.

XXRXX

He looked into My eyes, and I almost died. Then I remembered what I was and half killed him.

3 Apr 09, 7:14 PM
Katena
UK(M), 8 yrs

Shamonu wrote:
Well, if you want..

A)To have some wank fodder and feel THE MAN, go fem sub..

B)To learn new Domming techniques, learn that women know how women tick, more than you do, go Domme..

C)Open yer door to a 20 stone fugly, with DMs, an anorak, comfy slacks, a tattoo of Joan Armatrading on her bicep and a greasy mullet, go nilla lesbian..

Good luck...

i quite detest your post

And these's me thinking folk in 'the scene' weren't oppressive/discriminatory... uh huh...bollox!

I've ran out of sick days...so i'm calling in dead

Edited 3 Apr 09, 7:15 PM by Katena

3 Apr 09, 11:17 PM
Shamonu
UK, 7 yrs

Katena wrote:

Shamonu wrote:
Well, if you want..

A)To have some wank fodder and feel THE MAN, go fem sub..

B)To learn new Domming techniques, learn that women know how women tick, more than you do, go Domme..

C)Open yer door to a 20 stone fugly, with DMs, an anorak, comfy slacks, a tattoo of Joan Armatrading on her bicep and a greasy mullet, go nilla lesbian..

Good luck...

i quite detest your post

And these's me thinking folk in 'the scene' weren't oppressive/discriminatory... uh huh...bollox!

I speak the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...

She's so pure, Moses could'nt even part her knees.....Joan Rivers on Marie Osmond.

3 Apr 09, 11:19 PM
Shamonu
UK, 7 yrs

lush_london wrote:

Nope, unlikely to be a whirlwind of words against, cos many people on here either know the genuinely adorable Shamonu or are familiar enough with her postings

Dearest Lush, for a heterosexual woman, you're quite alright yerself

But if I ever see you swaying to Willow again and hugging rancid old dykes, I'll have to shoot you!!

She's so pure, Moses could'nt even part her knees.....Joan Rivers on Marie Osmond.

Edited 3 Apr 09, 11:20 PM by Shamonu

4 Apr 09, 2:59 AM
Caracal
UK(SS), 5 yrs

Describing myself as a heteroflexible femswitch, I do enjoy having the fulfillment of being the occasional third party to an already established duo dynamic as I really do not have the time or inclination to devote to a full on commitment, but am happy to be part of, but not central to, a relationship. It suits me and my lifestyle to be so.

People can question my reasoning...but I would never allow myself to be considered as a commodity in any way, shape or identification.

northerngal_66 wrote:

LittleMissEvil wrote:

Star_Master wrote:
fem sub, Domme or lesbian?

slave recently expressed a desire to try being with another woman, she's normally as straight as a dye although I have ordered her with another female sub before which she quite enjoyed. My quite enjoyable dilemma now is fem sub, fem domme, or nilla lesbian???

Which dynamic holds the most interesting possibilities I wonder??

Well i guesse it really depends what you both want. If she has expressed a desire to try it, then she probably has an idea as to what she would like. You could try asking her what she is wanting, is it just sex with a woman or is she after play or is it a mixture of both.

This is exactly what I would suggest.. perhaps you should discuss what you both want to gain from the experience.

Have to say though bi sexual switch sounds like an excellent idea!

http://www.avaaz.org/en/
The nice lady with the whip.

Edited 4 Apr 09, 4:20 AM by Caracal

4 Apr 09, 8:58 AM
LisaLJ
UK(DY), 6 yrs

Star_Master wrote:
slave recently expressed a desire to try being with another woman, she's normally as straight as a dye

If this happens will she become as straight as a dyke?

http://www.nationalpetregister.org/

4 Apr 09, 9:52 AM
yoda_dog
UK(HP), 6 yrs

Katena wrote:

And these's me thinking folk in 'the scene' weren't oppressive/discriminatory... uh huh...bollox!

Why did you think that?

I read this on the boards a lot of times, and I still don't get it. The only thing that people have in common in 'the scene' is BDSM.

As an aside, I think Shamonu was reeling of stereotypes to be facetious.

"Bottom line: it's couples who are truly right for each other wade through the same crap as everybody else, but the big difference is they don't let it take them down. One of those two people will stand up and fight for that relationship every time."

Edited 4 Apr 09, 9:53 AM by yoda_dog

4 Apr 09, 10:47 AM
Katena
UK(M), 8 yrs

yoda_dog wrote:
Why did you think that?

I read this on the boards a lot of times, and I still don't get it. The only thing that people have in common in 'the scene' is BDSM.

As an aside, I think Shamonu was reeling of stereotypes to be facetious.

I dont care what reason it was said...it didn't need to be!

I hate that post....im offended by it hugely

I've ran out of sick days...so i'm calling in dead

Edited 4 Apr 09, 10:49 AM by Katena

4 Apr 09, 10:53 PM
Hislilpuppy
9 yrs

Hey i have met Shamonu .... and found her great fun to chat too... but dosnt mean i have to agree...

sure if that was said in jest ...but still dislike the notion....

The label is a identity actually .. butch is a posertive definition

submission is permission to truly be yourself without judgment

5 Apr 09, 10:28 AM
Shamonu
UK, 7 yrs

Katena wrote:

I dont care what reason it was said...it didn't need to be!

I hate that post....im offended by it hugely

I will take my humour fighting and kicking to the grave, which is where many would like to see it buried with me!!

I was on the lezza scene from 1979 to 2003, teenie bit longer than you maybe, some 25ish years. Gateways was fab till it closed in 1984 and I loved the London scene then. But, the fuckers have little to no humour now and drained the life blood from me.

I fucked them all and butches were my thing for years. But on the whole the lesbians in the last decade are too fukin serious and politically correct for their own good. They are boring and being with hetties and bi sexual perverts has saved me from a lezza induced early death.

You have every right to your opinion, thats cool.

I have every right to my humour, thats cool too

She's so pure, Moses could'nt even part her knees.....Joan Rivers on Marie Osmond.

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