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| Brindle |
on Fri 13 Feb 04, 10:31 PM to Brindle's blog.
Why is this an issue?
I want all sorts of things (which I'm not going to in into right now) and any relationship with a sub will include whatever the hell I like thank-you very much. As long as they are happy and I am happy and it's safe - well who gives a toss?
I'm not ashamed of saying I like cock (sorry to be so blunt here but hey something someone said got my goat).
I like to taste it and feel it. And why should'nt I?
Don't make me any less of a Domme.
The only difference I suppose to vanilla is that I say when, where and how.
But to deny myself that pleasure completely? You must be nuts! No dildo or tongue compares with that for me.
It's just like I said...how, where, when, what and who.
Get real.
Don't be so wrapped up in this you loose sense of self or the possibilities of pleasure and excitement.
Life is out there.
Take it and enjoy it and do what is good for you and whatever partner you happen to be with.
Penetrative sex isn't the be all and end all - I know that and I celebrate that - but to deny it's power and satisfaction simply because I'm female and it's not seen as "politically correct" for a Domme to want or enjoy?
The way I see it? It's only an issue between you and yr sub if there is a lack of trust and understanding. Nothing should like that seriously be out of bounds for both of you if you understand why it's needed and how. The only fear I can truly see on that issue is insecurity.
However I'm willing to be educated
So
Tell me if I'm wrong and I'll at least listen
Ms B
Edited Fri 13 Feb 04, 10:48 PM by Brindle
