| 18 Mar 09, 6:36 PM PrinceCaspian UK(SE), 6 yrs   |
does that mean physically or as a switch? Thus I clothe my naked villainy with old odd ends taken forth from holy writ and do seem a saint when most I play the Devil!
Shakespeare | |
| 18 Mar 09, 6:40 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs   |
You know well enough that physically I'm a total wimp. I'll be done in seconds! There's no fun to that bet... Tuam Matrem Feci | |
| 19 Mar 09, 2:42 PM blacksheepboy UK(CR), 4 yrs |
In the end, of course, you may find there are aspects of subbing that just aren't for you. You may even reject the whole thing ultimately, but that's OK; you're just exploring and who knows, you may surprise yourself. I've astonished myself in the last year. One last thought about the s/m thing: you don't have to be 'hard' to be a masochist. I think it's largely in the mind and has a deep connection to d/s in my view. I never thought I'd like it myself. You know the power of the mind: it's always surprising us. What's the point having cake, if you can't eat it? | |
| 19 Mar 09, 3:51 PM Sauvage_x UK(SE), 4 yrs |
Hey Pat, thanks for the cheeky mention.  I'm glad if I've helped you sort out your thoughts... "tough love" or something like that.*Shotgun I get to bite Indelible*. With love from half-way across the world. x "My mother never saw the irony in calling me a son-of-a-bitch" - Jack Nicholson | |
| 19 Mar 09, 4:07 PM mini_velvet UK(EH), 6 yrs |
You being happy is the important factor, labels schmabels  No colours or shapes | |
| 19 Mar 09, 8:28 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs |
I don't have a bloody clue if it is "myself" yet! I doubt I ever will actually, what's that old thing about we're always learning and life's one long journey? Tuam Matrem Feci | |
| 20 Mar 09, 12:33 PM ScarletPimpernel UK(HA), 7 yrs |
Goodluck in finding that jorney as it will be one hell of a ride!
You say I am a bastard like that is a bad thing! | |
| 1 Apr 09, 12:15 PM Mabuse 4 yrs |
Welcome to the Club! As a club class traveller, remember to fasten your seatbelt and hold on tight for there might be some turbulences. If in doubt, don't hesitate to raise your queries with the stewardess known as meardearna. I wish you have a thoroughly pleasant and unique journey! |
