Posted by angeldustx
on Wed 11 Mar 09, 10:20 PM to angeldustx's blog.
is heartbreaking...
I am reading everywhere about Jade Goody and her struggle with cancer, and it brings tears to my eyes as on the same wards in the same hospital is someone closer to home for me, someone else who has gone home to pass away peacefully with their family... my family!
But i did something good at least today, i pleaded with someone important to me to make a call and give a wonderful dying man his one last wish... he did it, even though it took a lot to swallow his pride because he was actually in the right, he will never know how proud of him i am, as i cant tell him! Its taken many years of frustration and tears on my part.... but tonight he made that call and took steps towards reconciling before its too late and he can never have the chance to speak to his dad again!
| 11 Mar 09, 10:55 PM Kinky_Vidushaka UK(SW), 3 yrs  |
My daughter's mother is dying of liver cancer (was diagnosed December 2007). We never married but things worked out alright for our daughter in the end (I will not go into details). When I was with a Domme last year She allowed me to visit her and I forgave her for what has happened to our daughter. I was told yesterday that she was back in hospital so I visited her tonight and I had to walk out after only 15 minutes. Her short and long term memory has gone, she was verbally nasty to me and was trying to use emotional blackmail to get me to take her back home. I sincerely hope your partner's father eases into the afterlife without too much pain and suffering. With my ex I wish I could skip from now til when she dies so I can still keep all the happy memories I have of her. I know that is me being selfish, I just don't want to see her diminish further in my eyes. Edited due to typo. Edited 11 Mar 09, 10:56 PM by Kinky_Vidushaka |
| 12 Mar 09, 10:20 AM silent_lucidity UK(M), 4 yrs |
I'm sorry that you and your family are dealing with such a sad event. I cant read the Jade Goody coverage, she reminds me too much like my dear brave friend Helena - also an essex girl - who died just over a year ago at way too young an age. I know from personal experience that there's no 'nice' way to die from a terminal condition such as some cancers but to be home with family, away from the hustle and bustle of hospital can be a nicer way. 12 years on from losing my mum to it I still feel terrible guilt about things and wished I'd had chance to seek forgiveness and to say goodbye properly (her demise at the end was rapid and unexpected). Its great that you have helped two members of your family - father and child - to find some peace at the end, I hope you find your own. Hugs cx |
