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owning more than one sub/slave (1)

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Posted by pixie15_CJ_s on Thu 5 Mar 09, 9:24 PM to pixie15_CJ_s's blog.

ok i have never shared my Dom so im putting this question out for others to answer

as a Dom/me owning more than one sub/slave ... do you treat then differently?

is it not your job to make both feel the same .... yes you may have an alpha sub ... but should they upset the other/second sub by showing off that they get more?... is this acceptable?

should not a Dom/mes job to keep both subs in thier place and not allow one to hurt the feelings of the others ...

would you feel happy that one sub feels inferior?... depressed because of the actions of the other sub?

Edited Thu 5 Mar 09, 9:31 PM by pixie15_CJ_s

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5 Mar 09, 10:35 PM
Ms_Dior_Chance
UK(CW), 9 yrs

No personal experience to share , poly isn't easy by all accounts,there are many previous threads from poly people on IC, but perhaps an article of interest. http://www.steel-door.com/polygamy.htm Any relationship has its ups and downs and is for the people involved to manage as they see fit- it may not always be as it appears from outside- we all have off days.
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