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| 5 Mar 09, 6:02 PM whaplodedave UK(PE), 6 yrs  |
im not starting nuffin' tis a nice dress but as you dont want it i will keep it for myself then
and the pink gloves and wig and undies
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| 5 Mar 09, 6:08 PM Princess_Nobody UK, 3 yrs |
Ha, same for me... Being called names doesn't massively turn me on in the main, but the person I am playing with can pretty much say what they please without risk of me calling time on a session. I do really struggle with calling MYSELF names though. It's almost like I can pretend to myself that they don't mean it if THEY say it, but if I am saying it then it must be true.
One certain person enjoys teasing and pleasing me, and then forcing me to call myself names or tell him what I want him to do to me, otherwise he stops. It's slightly less of a struggle now, I just hope he never makes me look him in the eye at the same time, as I will fail miserably.
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| 5 Mar 09, 7:55 PM Goldilocks UK(SE), 5 yrs |
Someone else has said this and I agree; if someone called me fat or anything similar in play, using my weight as an insult, or even my physical appearance, it would immediately affect me. I'd be hurt, crushed and would feel fat, ugly, unattractive and therefore my confidence would be gone and I wouldn't want to play or submit any further. I'd start feeling unworthy and crap. I'd also then start worrying they genuinely thought I was fat, unattractive, ugly etc and feel worse and worse, going on a spiral downwards. Someone can call me a slut, cunt, whore, bitch etc etc in play but just stay away from insults about my physical body/looks!! Your power, our pleasure, my pain. | ||||
| 5 Mar 09, 8:08 PM Conan_The_Librarian UK(S), 3 yrs  |
I did have a hadron in by pocket, but, I got too excited and lost control of myself and now there is just a meson in there. Excuse me while I go and change my trousers. Here comes a whizz-bang, and I think you know what I'm talking about, woof! | ||||
| 5 Mar 09, 9:34 PM crackedporcelain UK(DT), 3 yrs |
Oooh more geeky deviants, be still my beating heart... | ||||
| 5 Mar 09, 9:40 PM iamafls 6 yrs |
Yeah I totally agree. Although Mistress called me 'bitch' today which was a first and took me by surprise, seemed more vicious than being called a slut, plus it's a female word so had a weird impact in my brain. And, registering this, I'm sure it'll be dropped into conversations in the future too... | ||||
| 5 Mar 09, 9:42 PM littlenic 5 yrs |
Being called names, anything nasty (with the usual weight/looks caveat!) is very hot... being made to repeat them, i.e. to call myself names is rather magic too!  (Sometimes it takes me a few goes, too. Heh. Not normally so coy...) "F-off you f-ing f-ers!" | ||||
| 5 Mar 09, 9:55 PM Burbsie UK(BN), 3 yrs |
Being called 'Keith' really turns me off. I don't even know anyone called Keith, so I'm lost as to why people keep on bringing it up. Fuckers. I'm looking to expand one's knowledge and experience ( as I have NONE)...really need a little help here! | ||||
| 5 Mar 09, 10:13 PM littlenic 5 yrs |
Leave Orville alone and it'll happen a lot less. "F-off you f-ing f-ers!" | ||||
| 5 May 09, 12:41 PM mastercard UK(CF), 7 yrs |
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