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| 24 Feb 09, 10:54 AM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £  |
Oh yes, I love shagging my sluts  with a strap-on of course lol." The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. Resist it
and your soul grows sick with longing, for the things it has forbidden
itself"
Oscar Wilde | |||
| 24 Apr 09, 2:15 AM GentlyJohnny UK(S), 3 yrs  |
haha I dont know - having to beg for it would take away a fair amount of the magic for me; its the kind of thing best delivered as a damn good punishment raping methinks | |||
| 24 Apr 09, 2:50 AM ampere UK(SS), 4 yrs |
controlled ejaculation via E-stim is that sex.:-0 | |||
| 24 Apr 09, 8:29 AM MistressKeene 3 yrs £ |
So what constitutes sex.....well, for me, sex is what I have with my personal sub p. I have sex with him in all it's varieties and I think of that as sex. Sex is a a big, deep, all encompassing thing which touches upon every nerve and fibre in my body, moving me emotionally and physically. That experience is only kept for him and me as a couple. Sex involves fucking, kissing, giving him oral ( yes, it can be done and still be a Domme!) and is what I think of as SEX. If boiled down to its simplest form for me, sex is a shorthand for sexual intercourse and that is what p and I do with foreplay such as kissing and oral as part of that process.
Sexual pleasure, as opposed to sex, is a different matter and is something I can get in many ways, some in sessions with subs and some on my own I get sexual pleasure indirectly from BDSM activities without direct contact upon my body and of course from things which do contact with my body. Because I am probably the only PD in the known universe who does not offer strap on as it makes me feel silly, uncomfortable and unfeminine to strap a plastic cock to myself, I never see strap on as either sex or sexual pleasure. However, if I hold the dildo or vibe in my hand, then it gives me sexual pleasure to fuck a sub with it because it feels good and right for me to use a sub with a hand held. So, I think I make a distinction as to what feels like it has been sex and what has been a sexual pleasure. | |||
| 24 Apr 09, 6:25 PM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £ |
My gusset drenches with most of my BDSM activities  However, strap-on and bi sessions really get my juices flowing  " The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. Resist it
and your soul grows sick with longing, for the things it has forbidden
itself"
Oscar Wilde | |||
| 24 Apr 09, 10:24 PM Lady_Toza_Scarlet UK, 5 yrs £ |
Oh I dunno about that. | |||
| 28 Apr 09, 11:06 PM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 7 yrs £ |
Nor do I.... although I'll be experimenting with it in my personal life soon.... if I enjoy it then it will be included in my pro sessions - but I may not! | |||
| 29 Apr 09, 1:19 PM Jahc01 3 yrs £ |
Top idea! Been thinking the same myself. | |||
| 29 Apr 09, 3:17 PM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 7 yrs £ |
Ah - I'd offer to do it together - but I've promised a boy....
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| 29 Apr 09, 3:40 PM Jahc01 3 yrs £ |
Errr, thanks..... But it puts a new spin on the OP, if I took a strap on to a female client. Hmmm, not sure I'd want to, but it's a thought. |
