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Posted by Voyeur36 on Wed 18 Feb 09, 1:04 AM to Voyeur36's blog.

Well, I'm still a newbie with no one to practise on. I went out tonight on a vanilla date with someone who knows I'm dom and she is sub. We actually met at a munch. Initially, I didn't know what to expect. I still don't know what I want. Or should I say, I didn't know what I wanted. Well, she certainly opened my eyes and helped to relax me. I now have an idea of what I want and how to say it. I like being in control. To tell her what to wear, what to do. Mind you, this is only one fantasy of many to come. I'm rubbish with knots so it has to be some other form of restraint. Tied up, helpless, at my mercy to do whatever I want to her. It's going to be mostly pleasure though, with the odd painful moment just to keep her on her toes. It's definitely going to be sexual as she is not going to be wearing much, and I'm ony human. And she is a sub to be used for my pleasure. The plus side for her is that I plan to try and give her pleasure first. On the negative side, there will be humiliation and exhibitionism on her part, leading up to the bondage scenario. Did I mention, I'm a voyeur, so I like looking at my handiwork. Before, during and after play. I don't want to go all hardcore fetishist straight away. A little light role play would be more my thing, for now. Some exhibitionism in a public place, glimpses of flesh normally covered. Timed by me with little signals from afar. A flash up the leg, some hints of more than cleavage. Self stimulation while you look at me for guidance on how far to go. All the while you hope no one notices. But some do and thats part of the game. Foreplay or fourplay, that's not been decided yet. There most surely will be play. More to come. . . .

Edited Wed 18 Feb 09, 1:25 AM by Voyeur36

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18 Feb 09, 1:32 AM
MarcusStrapp
UK(CB), 7 yrs
Sounds like you have a lot of fun in store for you both. Best of luck to you both.

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18 Feb 09, 1:41 AM
Voyeur36
UK(IG), 3 yrs
The funny thing is, I don't see us playing together. I was just saying she helped me to be more open/comfortable about what I want. However, there is always a possibility for other scenarios involving her.
18 Feb 09, 8:49 AM
Marmite
UK(CB), 5 yrs
Nice one... sounds like you've found your home. Welcome :-)

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