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| Tue 17 Feb 09, 1:45 PM scentofarose UK, 5 yrs  |
Is it the Dom thing to shave his/her sub, having a subby weekend with close friends we got around to how much effort it is to keep the hair at bay. ( well a moan and gripe really over this time consuming task)
When a friend was brave enough to pipe up that she didnt have to worry about all that as her Dom sorted it for her normally over a lazy sunday morning. the room went silent and a slight shade of green fell over the rest of us, 2 bottles of wine later, and fully recovered the subject was forgotten. met up with the men and a jolly good weekend was had by all. 10 mins into drive home and i brought up said subject about how nice it would be if he would once in a while do the shaving, without having to think about it he just came right back with not really a Dom thing to do!!! so does most Doms shave their Subs or is my friend just one of the lucky ones!!! have a got a case to carry on moaning to him about? | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 1:52 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs  |
I think the shaving issue and who does it to who is a bit like oral sex. Some see it as a dominant act, some a submissive one. Some see it as something they have to demand it of their subs whether they like it or not because all other Dom/mes do. Some dominant females do it to their male subs and some male subs do it to their female Dommes. Shaving like oral sex is an activity which we imbue with certain meaning above it's inherent one. Controversial views of Ms_Valentine. No 1. Slaves submit no more deeply than subs can do. No 2. Terms such as a 'sub' or a 'slave' describe a state of being, not a level of submission, importance or place in a hierarchy. 3. Submission?.. no limits necessary. | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 1:57 PM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
Oh dear god I'd hate to have anyone shave me  And probably even more having to shave someone else. I think for me it's a solitary activity 
I'm a little bit different, a little unusual and very unique | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:10 PM Dovetail UK, 3 yrs  |
So for you if a D/M was happy to shave it would be punishment or humiliation so worth doing. | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:19 PM Incandescence UK, 3 yrs |
Yes I suppose so. In fact I think that would be the ultimate punishment for me. Hhmmmm maybe a toss up between that and anything to do with feet
I'm a little bit different, a little unusual and very unique | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:19 PM syndeetoo UK(WC), 6 yrs |
It's my duty to look after all other areas such as legs and including keeping the landing strip tweezered, but H looks after the rest. This he does in a variety of styles, not always entirely sweetly. (And yes I usually hate it.) when you wear those dresses the sun comes shinin' through Edited 17 Feb 09, 2:20 PM by syndeetoo | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:35 PM morgan_MP UK, 8 yrs |
There are of course many reasons why a Dom might shave a sub, one being the humiliation of it, another being that whilst doing it he can'accidently' remove one or two with tweezers. Then there is the build of the sub, for myself i am unable to do a good job shaving, so, to my own humilation, have to request Master to do it for me, i find it both humilating and a turn on, i hate it when there is a 'difficult' hair that needs 'plucking out' but the result is something that meets with Masters standards.
Thats before i met with electolysis, now they are getting rarer and rarer For some Doms it might not be a 'domly' thing, but then as the old saying goes, there are no books written, nor is it cast in stone as to what is and what is not 'domly'. regards morgan_MP Meus dominus fidelis mancipium, semper | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:38 PM Forsaken1 UK, 7 yrs |
I personally use a cut throat razor to shave with, so shaving GeeeGeee would not be about humiliation nor trust, it would be classed as pure insanity! 
But I have and will shave her with a safty razor, it's fun! My name is Damien and I'm a survivor! | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:40 PM Red_Spark UK(LE), 5 yrs |
I have shaved parts of my boy occasionally  and do enjoy it.
I don't see it as being necessarily dominant in general, though - it depends more on the two people involved. I can see why people can see it that way, because of the vulnerability I suppose, as well as the fact they can't move around too much while you're doing it. "Be quiet and come with me. I won't betray you." | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:49 PM Voyeur36 UK(IG), 3 yrs |
Surely that would be the ultimate submission. Being forced to stay absolutely still, exposed and vulnerable, with someone holding a sharp object against one of the most sensitive parts of your body. I would love the oppurtunity to do that to someone. That requires a high level of trust, and for someone to give that to you, must be quite something. | ||
| 17 Feb 09, 2:54 PM Prince_Harming UK(M), 3 yrs £ |
I've shaved my girl and don't see it as being a sub thing at all. Having them lie back very still and hope to hell that you can keep your hand steady, for you to be able to choose the shape etc. of the hair - how can that be sub behaviour? Having said that, I don't see it as being massively Dom either, I just think it's fun :D Written something good? Share it with the rest of us: www.witlessmaunderings.com |
