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| 30 Jan 09, 11:47 PM pinkylucy UK(M), 9 yrs |
Corner time has been something I have hated/adored since childhood. I had a painting as a child of a little girl standing in a corner looking very ashamed and embarrassed. It was something I bought for myself and I loved it! This is something which crosses over various dynamics for me. It works well for me as part of age play when I tend to resist and pout and stamp my feet and inevitably end up over somebody's knee for a spanking because I didn't behave properly in the corner. (unless it's in a school setting when I take it quietly and really feel my place!) It also works on me as a submissive when it provokes a feeling of shame and humiliation. It's the kind of thing which is incredibly effective as a non-disruptive but appropriate punishment if D/s friends are visiting. So simple. So versatile. So incredibly hot! "Don't Dream It - Be It" - The Rocky Horror Show 1973 | ||
| 31 Jan 09, 12:01 AM lil_tiggy UK(BH), 4 yrs |
just thought i'd throw a 'boy's' perspective in here... i am extremely talkative and can be very cheeky, so Mummies and Aunties have used a form of corner time. these have varied from having a dummy put in my mouth, forbidden to remove it and actually sit in the corner facing the wall. other times, i have been put in a playpen or cot - sometimes strapped in...and even been made to sit on a naughty step! i suppose just like the real thing, it is the separation and sense of loneliness that is the biggest punishment. it is is also wonderfully humiliating, as other posters already said it really takes you back in time and makes you feel 'small'! and the hugs when one is 'freed' are great - with the promises to be good...'til next time!
t "A Woman's place is in control, a man's place is in diapers!" (slogan on a US Mommy's t-shirt) Edited 31 Jan 09, 12:24 AM by lil_tiggy | ||
| 31 Jan 09, 12:19 AM Coryman UK(PO), 8 yrs |
I started my latest D/s relationship with precisely this notion in mind. We discussed it and she thought it sounded an exciting addition to punishment. We tried it and soon abandoned it. What I found was; I would rather cuddle her and kiss her (not sexually) so that the bond between us was enhanced prior to punishment and so that she could feel the sharp contrast between my soft and gentle touch and the stern and painful ordeal ahead of her. I suppose I am a somewhat sensitive individual as is she and we are both able to appreciate the myriad physical and emotional constrasts involved in D/s. One very good example of such a contrast involves the panties Vs thongs argument. To us both it seems futile to wear something which exposes so much flesh. We feel that the act of baring her bottom for punishment is an essential part of the act and that garments which do not cover properly are no loss when they are ripped down. She suddenly feels the air on her bottom and it adds spice to the occassion and enhances the embarrassment aspect. Coryman | ||
| 31 Jan 09, 12:32 AM oOArtemisOo 4 yrs |
I love corner time... sadly however Sir has stopped giving me it as he's realised this, and that I used to use the time to meditate! lol )O( Artemis )O( | ||
| 31 Jan 09, 12:41 AM lil_tiggy UK(BH), 4 yrs |
hmmm...i know what you mean!
that is like when someone enjoys a spanking too much...who me? It is more of a punishment for one's Superior to threaten and then not carry out such a thing - knowing the tease is actually worse - and therefore it becomes actual punishment!
t "A Woman's place is in control, a man's place is in diapers!" (slogan on a US Mommy's t-shirt) Edited 31 Jan 09, 12:42 AM by lil_tiggy | ||
| 31 Jan 09, 10:07 PM DaddyCumbria UK(CA), 3 yrs |
Smashes jar to get lots of pennies handy!
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| 1 Feb 09, 5:09 PM Daddywithgirl 3 yrs |
Maybe insist you stand with a specific posture such as; hands on head and in a semi squat position so after a number of minutes [depending on your leg strength] the muscles in your legs begin to burn and tremble. Maybe you could suggest that to him? (º•.¸(¨*•.¸¸.•*¨)¸.•º) | ||
| 1 Feb 09, 6:23 PM Coryman UK(PO), 8 yrs |
My own view of corner time, is to concentrate the sub's mind on what she has done and why she has been punished, so any thing such as holding the penny to the wall with her nose or squatting would be an additional punishment and would distract her somewhat from reflection on her behaviour and the punishment she has just received. Hands on head would be aceptable, but I would far rather give her a damned good hiding which punished her fully and then take her in my arms and make her my good girl again - until the next time. Coryman | ||
| 2 Feb 09, 8:33 AM Daddywithgirl 3 yrs |
Though of course I would rather not have to add that variation. The pure and simple original is the best in my book. The sight of a naked chastised girl in the corner with hands on her head or by her sides is enough to warm the cockles of my heart and produce a stirring in my loins.
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| 2 Feb 09, 8:45 AM Daddywithgirl 3 yrs |
and here is a absolutely lovely image http://spankingdepot.com/galleries/F121/OTK_Span... Contrite girl with reddened bottom given time to think over why her Daddy/teacher had to punish her. (º•.¸(¨*•.¸¸.•*¨)¸.•º) |