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What is it about getting tied up? (51)

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29 Jan 09, 10:46 PM
merrynb99
UK(SL), 6 yrs
I also love the decorative and creative element of rope; it's a design form - it's a kinky kind of "form meets function" - it's all colours and patterns and loops and intricate knots and including "found" objects like bamboo into the design. Chains come a pretty close second, I'll acknowledge that, but there's something to the texture of rope that is like nothing else.
29 Jan 09, 11:40 PM
kayak1
UK(PA), 4 yrs
wizard_eskarina wrote:
I'm still new to stuff and have only been tied up by an ex, and we were together a good while and the tieing up was somehting that progressed slowly over the years we were together, not like say meeting up for play with osmeone off of here etc, so I never really had any fear, and to be honest I didn't like it, surely that is half of the appeal, well I think it is for me.

So because I never felt this, I started to wonder what the big deal was with people being tied up, the mind play and physical dominance have always been the key things for me.

Still, I have been thinking about getting tied up by someone new and what it might feel like, and started to see things from a different angle and reckon I will probs be really nervous :P

So that'll be fun if/when it happens :D [/quote Hey a very honest reply to a thread rare here ! Thanks for that Terry

29 Jan 09, 11:46 PM
ladyjayne
8 yrs
Jahc99 wrote:
Lots of long and very agreeable stuff

basically pretty much everything he said...

the only thing I can add is *yum* but when rope is involved you'll be lucky to get that much out of me, my nick used to be ropepuddle for a reason :)

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30 Jan 09, 1:55 PM
bbound
UK(CF), 9 yrs

My Mistress prefers chains/handcuffs to ropes - although it is early days for her in bondage sessions. She loves the ease of use and the sound - and the utter impossibility for me to escape.

Me, I just love being tied up and at Her mercy .............

30 Jan 09, 5:47 PM
HisHoliness
UK(KT), 6 yrs
Avralivia wrote:
What is it about getting tied up?

For me it completely depends on who's doing the tying and on the atmosphere.

There have been times for me in the past when there's been a really lovely connection between the rigger and myself - times when i've really wanted to just melt into a puddle and submit to them. When that happens it's a wonderful feeling of submission and restraint and being held in the rope, being aware of the rough scratchy fibres and of the increasing immobility. The knowledge that the more they tie, the more i'm theirs.

On other occasions it's about just letting the person practice their rope skills, being useful and simply providing a body to use - like a artists model - like being used by a photographer. Not the same puddle of submission, but still enormously pleasurable and relaxing and a feeling of being needed and used and of being useful and of giving pleasure.

And sometimes there's the added pleasure of some really lovely photographs of different colours or postures or viewing body parts in a new way.

And sometimes of course, it can be just fun, with laughter, cheek, punishments and tortures.

And then there's cold chains, sometimes from the freezer. Small droplets of cold water running down the flesh making one feel so alive and seeing the pleasure in the torture's eyes. num num num

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Edited 30 Jan 09, 5:54 PM by HisHoliness

30 Jan 09, 10:00 PM
sparky1
UK(WA), 5 yrs
Avralivia wrote:
What is it about getting tied up?

I read a lot of topics/posts on here about ropework, and tying people up.

So what came to mind was...

What is it about getting tied up that makes so many people melt?

What is it about the feeling of being tied in different positions that makes you... whatever it makes you feel? ;)

Why do so many people see it as a huge part of what they do and enjoy?

Just wondering... because im sure there will be all kinds of answers from both sides of the fence, so to speak.

Interesting to find peoples motivations sometimes. :-)

having been tying people up for some years now it never seases to amaze me how tying a girl up in a simple shibiari, will not only put a smile on her face from ear to ear but will empower her , turning the shyest of girls into the exhibitionest she always wanted to be

30 Jan 09, 10:25 PM
MasterLovesRope
UK(NG), 3 yrs
For me it not about the submission issue although I will admit it plays apart, its about the feeling of rope. The fact that it changes every time and can hurt one day and feel comfortable the next. I know he is can vary it depending on the situation and how he wants it look, and whether it is to look pretty or for effect. In terms of learning to tie as someone said earlier the only constraints are safety and how bendy the person is, I got a real kick out of learning to tie well and being able to achieve something that looked aesthetically pleasing and achieving my goal.
30 Jan 09, 10:39 PM
Shaydes
UK(W), 9 yrs

Ditto just about everything mentioned above, but just to add - it isn't just about helplessness and lack of control, it's the real sense of freedom that it gives one.

I love bondage in all its forms, just like Jahc, and each has its advantages. Rope, though, gives one far more flexibility in the level and the shape of the restraint.

Also, it isn't just the look of it whilst it's on, it's the look of it and the feeling it leaves you with after it comes off. Physically and mentally. No other form of restraint does that.

As a giver and a receiver I can appreciate it from both directions. Some folks say that it takes too long. It doesn't have to of course, but you can be very sensual and devilish as you apply or remove it too. All part of the fun, don't you know?

EniGmA

===
Think outside the box if you will, but I still have you tied up inside it!

31 Jan 09, 10:16 AM
Diablos_patience
UK, 6 yrs
Bondage is probably the main thing that im interested in and i adore each and ever type... if i can be restrained in it, im there.....including mental bondage to :-D I adore the sensation of restriction and the tighter that restriction the better...

I adore the aesthetics, the interaction that happens between the top and bottom when being tied... its quiet a close and intimate thing when you're being tied into an intricate piece of bondage... when he is turning you into a piece of his art.....

Then you have the practical application, the vulnerability that it causes. When well restrained you just have the psychological sense of complete powerlessness and thus being completely vulnerable.... as long as the tie is half decent that is, nothing more wrong in the world than shit bondage!!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm bondage :-p

~* Raku wa ku no tané; ku wa raku no tané. *~

31 Jan 09, 10:39 AM
NinjaBitch
7 yrs
It's an erotic ritual. Every touch deliberate, every click of the lock divine. There are few things more sensual (IMO) than working over someone's body and ending in their immobility.

Deeee licious!

Perfect behavio(u)r is born of complete indifference.

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