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| 26 Jan 09, 8:42 AM rubberroy UK(TN), 6 yrs  |
We need to show tolerance of each other's perversions/needs/kinks call it what you will. The government are trying desparately to break us down with the new laws on viewing "violent" pron and any split in the ranks will no doubt be made wider by another attack from the though police. There's enough room on this site for EVERYBODY'S kink, except of course those involving the under 16s and animals, definite no-nos for obvious reasons. I'm quite happy to see CP in fetish clubs, the ame as I'm quite happy to see a full blown bondage/torture session in the same club, and have done over they years. Please, everyone, show tolerance to your fellow kinksters, whatever it is. Rubber Roy | ||
| 27 Jan 09, 10:41 PM KinkyKumbrian UK(CA), 3 yrs  |
Hello, Lady Alex, I do remember checking out your site some years ago and quite enjoying it. Maybe I should have got in touch with you through my old steam PC from the dial up days, as I knew this was what I was more into- a good whacking over the desk, than what I went for, but blame it on a lack of experience and the fact I was totally new, even though the tendencies had been beneath the surface for years. It's only in more recent years and with a little more research have I realised what I prefer, rather than the " I'm desperate, anything please" approach I had when I first joined IC under a different screen name.
Nice to see you back, but does anyone know what happened to a long standing CP specialist called Auntie Jennifer who was quite local. I did e mail her in 2005 and next time I went on her site it had closed down. Did she emigrate by any chance?
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| 28 Jan 09, 8:07 PM MadamAlex UK(LS), 3 yrs £ |
Hello Bendover.
I believe Aunt Jennifer originally moved to Spain, however I have heard on the grapevine that she is now back living in Cumbria running a CP bed and breakfast....obviously this is not Gospel but from a reliable source.
Happy hunting.... | ||
| 28 Jan 09, 8:26 PM KinkyKumbrian UK(CA), 3 yrs |
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| 28 Jan 09, 8:54 PM subjayBelfast UK(BT), 3 yrs |
Aunt Jennifer still has a video site see link below. | ||
| 7 Aug 09, 7:18 PM JimNixon UK(CA), 8 yrs |
As I understand it Aunt Jennifer moved to Calpe in Spain circa 2003 / 2004. For a time she seemed to offer sun-soaked holiday spanking sessions but I've heard nothing of her Spanish operation recently. She still has a number of websites up and running - the most recent being: http://www.fetish-hosting.com/scallywags The British Spanking Forum has a message about her dated 2004 suggesting that she is still in Spain. She's not been seen recently in Wigton! | ||
| 7 Aug 09, 9:22 PM skadii UK(W), 5 yrs |
Exactly. If BDSM covers bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism, and all of the various subcategories of all of those, I'm not sure that many people would be into *everything* covered by the umbrella term of BDSM.
It's a bit like being a member of the LGBTQQ community: you can pick one or more, but you don't have to be lesbian, gay, bi, trans, queer and questioning all at the same time (although I know a few who have tried). | ||
| 7 Aug 09, 9:25 PM KinkyRoly UK(OX), 3 yrs |
I don't go to enough events to know what is the norm elsewhere, but I do know that at our parties, caning, spanking and flogging are very commonplace indeed. It never occurred to me that anybody would think they were not part of 'proper' BDSM. We aim to be as inclusive as possible in our events. So long as it's practical, safe and legal, it's probably OK with us. Personally I rather like seeing people doing things that I'm not into and have no experience of. I assume that others feel the same way about practices that they are unfamiliar with too. I can't see any reason to make artificial divisions based on age, orientation, race, experience or interests when it comes to play parties. Looking back on our party last Wednesday, we saw every one of those potential divisions nicely ignored. | ||
| 8 Aug 09, 8:44 AM BigPain UK(N), 7 yrs |
I think we can all be pretty well anythng we want, can't we, providing we don't breach the rights of others? (That is, of course, the ones who don't want them breached.) Personally, I find getting a good caning not too much of a problem - the difficulty is to find a master or mistress who really wants to go to extremes and force them on me. For me that control element and someone else taking over is crucial, but I'm not sure where that belongs. Not simple CP presumably, which is just about the body. This is more to do with the mind. | ||
| 8 Aug 09, 9:07 AM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
But there is a division and if certain people want that division shouldn't they be entitled to have it? CPers don't see themselves as lesser or better than BDSMers. I really can't see why anyone would think this from what has been said on this thread. There is a a difference between CP and BDSM in certain quarters and if they want that difference then they can have it. There is no need for anyone to feel offended or confused about it.
"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness |
