| 20 Jan 09, 9:37 PM lil_Pup NL, 5 yrs   |
As the other person in the relationship with Misskimberley I would like to insert my 2p's worth. With MK I live with far more restrictions than in my relatively vanilla previous relationship. In theory this should cause more tension. But it does not because we communicate. When each of us speaks we both listen. In the end MK has the final decision which I choose to accept. Because we have both listened to eachother I can't think of an occasion where the final decision was a problem for me.
How can we grow old when we are not trying *The Delays |
| 20 Jan 09, 9:45 PM northernwench 7 yrs |
I think Miss Kimberleys question, in fairness, was a pertinent one. Whilst I am always glad that anyone - and obviously you alex-is happy with their lot d/s wise, and feel very fulfilled, there is much about not co-habiting that allows that bubble to float unburst. Mopping up catshit, snoring, people picking toenails,making sure the tv license is paid,recycling the cardboard..these are aspects of life that are as important as any aspect of d/s because they reflect who you are as a person - and if you can't display the whole side of you, the mundane and the gloriously d/s, that supression is unhealthy, I think. There is no right or wrong way of behaving - only what is agreed between couples, and even then, I don't believe it is always right to contain raw emotion. It is usually there for a reason.
But I always did like a good door slam
Edited 20 Jan 09, 9:46 PM by northernwench |
