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My reasons for leaving IC. (23)

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Posted by slaveish on Sat 17 Jan 09, 6:25 PM to slaveish's blog.

Since June 2002 my Master has allowed me to write about our many varied BDSM adventures....and Ive found myself using IC as a kind of kinky diary, mostly for myself so that I can look back and remember the things that Master and I have done together, but also for the enjoyment of others who are part of this wonderful lifestyle.

Alas, Over the last few months I have found that IC has slowly turned into more of a gossip column than a place where folk can discuss BDSM matters and write about lifestyle issues.

Ive recently read many blogs where folk are being bitchy about others, blogs that lead to youtube(mostly nothing to do with BDSM) and blogs that even attack peoples personal religious beliefs...only a very small percentage of blogs are to do with any form of BDSM issues.

Im weary with IC now, just before Christmas I took a break from writing my blogs in the hope that things would change for the better in the New Year....but it just aint happened.

So, today I talked to my Master about my feelings and asked for permission to cease writing on IC for the foreseable future...Master has granted me permission and I am going to start writing my own personal diary in a notebook.

One day I may start writing on IC again, if other blogs change for the better, but for now I will wish you all well and say bye bye.

slave ish (slave of Master Iwill)

Replies

17 Jan 09, 6:27 PM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
I'm very sorry to see you go. Your blogs never fail to make me smile. I hope there comes a time when you return. I wish you and your Master all the best for your future together.

No colours or shapes
No sound in my head
I forget who i am
Dirtier than Amy Winehouse's beehive

17 Jan 09, 6:32 PM
crimsonsky
UK, 6 yrs
I'll miss your blogs. Best wishes to you.
17 Jan 09, 6:32 PM
larra_uk
7 yrs
I have read your weblogs for longer than I can remember and I will miss them very much.

Take Care

larra x

17 Jan 09, 6:38 PM
LittleSavage
UK(GU), 4 yrs

I have read most of your blogs and will miss them. So thank you from an avid people watcher and I hope you will come back x

17 Jan 09, 6:43 PM
XX_adeena_XX
4 yrs
Sad to see you go. Wish you well.

I have to agree, much too much bickering, easy to get fed-up of it and I almost am too.

Let me know where you go?

I use the boards as a diary, like you did, but hardly anyone responds to anything part from gossip anymore.

I tried live-journal for a while if that helps.

d xxx

Edited 17 Jan 09, 6:55 PM by XX_adeena_XX

17 Jan 09, 6:49 PM
Sunhillow
7 yrs
I totally understand your decision and agree with what you have said about IC.

I've always read your blogs and smiled at the fantastic balance you have between your vanilla life, your relationship with your Master and your many adventures and days out together. To me they epitomise what a day to day D/s relationship is all about.

May I also please just say that to me you have been a shining example of a dedicated slave and have always conducted yourself with gentleness and dignity on this site.

I wish you and your Master all the very best things in life. You have a wonderful relationship which has been a delight to read about.

You will be missed.

Take care, and I know that you have a wonderful Man who takes care of you and has your very best interests at heart.

S xxx

~ If you must pick the lesser of two evils; choose the one you've never tried before. ~

17 Jan 09, 6:51 PM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
Sunhillow wrote:

May I also please just say that to me you have been a shining example of a dedicated slave and have always conducted yourself with gentleness and dignity on this site.

Perfectly expressed.

No colours or shapes
No sound in my head
I forget who i am
Dirtier than Amy Winehouse's beehive

17 Jan 09, 7:05 PM
just_tope
6 yrs
I'm so sad to read this but understand completely. I have enjoyed reading your diary and seeing the dedication and love between you and yours. May you both continue to be happy and well.

tope x

"If confusion is the first step to knowledge, I must be a genius" ~ Larry Leissner

17 Jan 09, 7:22 PM
little_temptress
4 yrs
Sunhillow wrote:
I totally understand your decision and agree with what you have said about IC.

I've always read your blogs and smiled at the fantastic balance you have between your vanilla life, your relationship with your Master and your many adventures and days out together. To me they epitomise what a day to day D/s relationship is all about.

May I also please just say that to me you have been a shining example of a dedicated slave and have always conducted yourself with gentleness and dignity on this site.

I wish you and your Master all the very best things in life. You have a wonderful relationship which has been a delight to read about.

You will be missed.

Take care, and I know that you have a wonderful Man who takes care of you and has your very best interests at heart.

S xxx

I also agree with the comments above and have always enjoyed reading your blogs.

All the best and take care

xx

17 Jan 09, 7:31 PM
Praes_girl
UK(WV), 4 yrs

I have read most of your blogs and have enjoyed them immensely and i will miss seeing them. I understand why you have come to this decision and can only hope you do come back soon.

Best wishes for the future x

I Am Ninja, God Damnit!

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