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Face slapping (87)

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Oh, yes - so,so gorgeous! You articulate very well. I cannot live without this, frankly!

3 May 09, 9:04 PM
LadyLibidienne
UK(CB), 8 yrs

My partner Roly and I regularly exchange face slaps when playing. He usually does it when i am tied up and he is enjoying me, and is usually done when i show too much evidence of enjoying what is going on. The trouble is while still a shock every time because i have no idea when he will do it, i still find it a tremendous turn on. Similarly i slap his face when roles are reversed, so we both get the best of both worlds.

"A heart is not judged by how much it loves but by how much it is loved" Wizard of Oz to the Tinman

3 May 09, 9:37 PM
Tapestry
UK(BS), 6 yrs

MistressLadyAnna wrote:

Noooooooooo. Slapping faces is highly erotic. It's all in the haughtiness as the ape said. I mix up the seductive, the vampish, the school marm, boss lady and the everything else and the poor boys don't have a clue whether they are coming or going.

Stroke the jawline, slap the cheek, scratch the back of the neck, slap the cheek. Ask lose/lose questions and...slap the cheek!

Wow. As a sub face slapping isn't something I've particularly wanted to experience but since you put it like that..

Think the appeal would be in the sense of humiliation, unfairness and bewilderment

3 May 09, 11:15 PM
CuckoldressSought
UK(LS), 3 yrs

Beautifully put. It's got to be the most delicious, flexible, degrading act that can be bestowed upon male or female subs. (And with similar resonances). Its power is its simplicity - different locations (in a clothes shop in front of other women,,,); different combinations with words/looks/gestures...there is nothing quite like it...and in odd and strange ways arguably the last taboo...

Tapestry wrote:

MistressLadyAnna wrote:

Stroke the jawline, slap the cheek, scratch the back of the neck, slap the cheek. Ask lose/lose questions and...slap the cheek!

Wow. As a sub face slapping isn't something I've particularly wanted to experience but since you put it like that..

Think the appeal would be in the sense of humiliation, unfairness and bewilderment

4 May 09, 12:47 AM
gigglewiggle
UK(DA), 4 yrs

RopeTopUK wrote:
Face slapping

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Is there a knack to it?

i would say that part of the knack is trying to really be open minded enough to see if you *can* find enjoyment in it. Personally, it is wonderful when done right and not so great when done in a way that hits something that should be avoided.

i would definitely say avoid the ears, as you can cause them not only to ring or buzz, but chance hearing damage. Also, the nose and eyes are quite easily harmed, so avoiding those is important.

Start out slow, keep eye contact and maybe even involve something you know you like. The first time i had it done was a Dominant partner. He strattled my hips and nudged me with his cock at the same time, while talking to me and holding a gaze into my eyes. It was simply an amazing feeling!

He partially used it to check to see how hard i could take, but it wasn't his first time for doing it. For you, it would be a chance to not only test them, but to see what control or enjoyment you get from it. Good luck!

*Edited for a few mistakes

Submission is a journey best not taken alone.

Edited 4 May 09, 12:51 AM by gigglewiggle

5 May 09, 8:14 PM
ScarlettDeWinter
UK(BS), 3 yrs

Whilst I know that safety is a paramont concern, I can imagine it could really ruin the moment, "I'm going to slap you... but first I'll take my rings off and check that there's no history of health issues in your family."

I love the idea of slapping a guy and being slapped straight back. Clearly and setting the women's rights movement right back.

All of us are in the gutter, but some of us are looking up at the stars. Oscar Wilde.

5 May 09, 8:57 PM
fineanddandy
UK, 3 yrs

Jahc99 wrote:

fineanddandy wrote:
Does anyone have any tips on how to achieve maximum sting with minimum force when slapping the face? I absolutely adore being slapped on the face but a couple of times recently, although I enjoyed the feeling, I wasn't so happy with the amount of force used to achieve it. Any tips anyone?

Yeah, I'll try, so how's this?

You have to let the whole forearm, especially the wrist and the hand, relax and go lose at the last moment.

Do so too early, and your aim will be off, do so too late, and you might dislocate the jaw!

Spread the fingers, and let them go floppy, like the tails of a flogger, because that is the effect you want, a finger flesh flogger.

De-cellerate the arm at the last moment, so a measured amount of momentum goes into the hand. Squash players may understand what I mean.

It delivers maximum sting, but with minimum force.

The backhand has a slight difference - keep the fingers under direct direction a shade longer, but still strike with them relaxed.

Or there the traditional twisting of the wrist slap, very measured and controlled.

Does that make sense?

Wow. Thanks! Yes it does, I will ask Sir to try these out. I think he should keep his specs on though, especially if he is going to try backhand, as he is almost as shortsighted as me and I will end up with a broken nose!!

Brilliant, thank you very much Jahc99.