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My unofficial name change (39)

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Degenerate
Posted by Degenerate* on Sun 21 Dec 08, 7:04 PM to Degenerate's blog.

Hello IC people :)

I feel a bit weird about it, but I figured it was about time I told everyone this, as some people are using my newer name and we're getting crossovers and confusion in public, so I thought it was better to explain.

I have an unofficial preferred name, and it is Dennis (Not Denis or Denise... but Dennis, like Dennis the Menace). http://dogpossum.org/archives/image/Dennis%20the...

I am not changing my name legally because I am awful at paperwork and because my given name Clair Lewis is known in various circles enough that I don't want to change it and have to start again like I am a different person. So call it a nickname if you like. Some of my friends have been using it for ages while I tried it for size, so I'm sorry if you already know all this!

I will not be offended if anyone does not use it. In anything official including press quotes and writing, anything which is work, and so on, I am likely to continue to use my legal name for continuity.

Also some people are using De as a shortening (because De is also a shortening of Degenerate).

Let's face it, Dennis suits me better than Clair.

*smiles* And yes it's cos I'm (gender)queer.

Dennis ;)

Edited Mon 22 Dec 08, 1:44 PM by Degenerate

Replies

21 Dec 08, 7:15 PM
Kali_Ma
UK(B), 5 yrs
This is one of those situations where I do the shrug of 'each to their own' but am confused. *G* No malice intended what so ever... just... Dennis? for someone I have only seen as a 'girlie girl'? (Am I mistaken??? *G*) Anyways... have a good Christmas etc... and I hope to bump into you in the New Year...*mwah*

PGK x

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21 Dec 08, 7:44 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs
Dennis it is then! :)

Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?

21 Dec 08, 8:18 PM
Mac_rame
UK(E), 12 yrs
Jahc99 wrote:
Dennis it is then! :)

Well at least you put a link to the front end of the bus:-p

Personally a rose by any other name.....:-)

I blame the trike myself, next thing you know it'll be leathers with studs on, but I'm only going to worry when the studs migrate to the inside:-p

Wayne

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21 Dec 08, 8:33 PM
Jahc99
UK, 5 yrs
Roflcopters! But it's a fire engine, which seemed a little more appropriate....

Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?

21 Dec 08, 8:40 PM
Silent_Storm
UK(M), 6 yrs


I always thought Clair was a nice name, even though its not my mothers name nor is Dennis.

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21 Dec 08, 9:29 PM
Jons_Amaranth
UK(WS), 11 yrs

Dennis the menace does suit you, so is Lucy now going to be Minnie the minx?

Of course they do Dennis the Menace bike helmets so when you are ready for your trip.....

Edited 21 Dec 08, 9:30 PM by Jons_Amaranth

21 Dec 08, 9:43 PM
RubyRouge
UK(S), 4 yrs

You have to do what feels right for you, and if its Dennis then so be it! You are still the same person. I always liked the Queen Dennis pic you have on your profile, so it doesn't seem that strange to me anyway! xx

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21 Dec 08, 10:24 PM
Degenerate*
UK(M), 5 yrs

Cor I have been getting nagged my little lady to tell everyone because it's been causing confusion, but phew that felt really difficult and edgy to do!

SadisticPGK wrote:
This is one of those situations where I do the shrug of 'each to their own' but am confused. *G* No malice intended what so ever... just... Dennis? for someone I have only seen as a 'girlie girl'? (Am I mistaken??? *G*) Anyways... have a good Christmas etc... and I hope to bump into you in the New Year...*mwah*

PGK x

I'm the same amount girly whirly..The more Dennis felt right the bigger my eyelashes and petticoats got ;) (most of my adult life I have looked more tomboyish than girlish- femme is in relatively recent years, those here who have known me a lot of years probably wont find this as surprising as you do) Boys name - girl presentation - gender 'allsorts'. (label nicked from my neighbour who thought it was nicely homo/queer/polyphobic to bitch about how I have "Men, women and allsorts coming and going"

Jahc99 wrote:
Dennis it is then! :)

How did you know I would be super impressed by you sending me a fire engine?! That's as cool as my boyfriend buying me a big catapault for my birthday! Thanks darlin :)

Badlands wrote:
Degenerate wrote:
Let's face it, Dennis suits me better than Clair.

Not in my book, it doesn't, ''Dennis,'' but then, as you know, I don't view you the way you view yourself (well, 99.9% of the time, anyway).

But obviously I'll respect your wishes.

Hope you and yours have a great Xmas. x

Thanks Badlands :-) ah I know you see me as a girl and I am ''kind of'' a girl :)

Mac_rame wrote:
Jahc99 wrote:
Dennis it is then! :)

Well at least you put a link to the front end of the bus:-p

Personally a rose by any other name.....:-)

I blame the trike myself, next thing you know it'll be leathers with studs on, but I'm only going to worry when the studs migrate to the inside:-p

Wayne

Awww Wayne thinks I smell nice :-D cheers sweetie! Yeah I already was using Dennis which is why when you found the trike I said 'It's a Dennis trike!' - for anyone who doesn't know I am now the proud owner of a wheelchair accessible trike Wayne found on ebay (which needs new spark plug apparently)!

Silent_Storm wrote:
I always thought Clair was a nice name, even though its not my mothers name nor is Dennis.

Aw that's nice. You can be Clair if you like it ;) I always hated my name and my mother promised I could change it when I grew up. I decided to do it now instead ;)

Jonssub wrote:
Dennis the menace does suit you, so is Lucy now going to be Minnie the minx?

Of course they do Dennis the Menace bike helmets so when you are ready for your trip.....

Thanks sweetheart! *chuckles at the Minnie* know what I call her Minnie (Mouse) when she is in her red and white polka dots :-) Minnie the Minx probably suits her better!

I want a Dennis the Menace bike helmet!

mistressb69 wrote:
You have to do what feels right for you, and if its Dennis then so be it! You are still the same person. I always liked the Queen Dennis pic you have on your profile, so it doesn't seem that strange to me anyway! xx

Absolutely, I sure am the same person :-D Thanks for saying that :-)

Hugs all round

:-D

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Edited 21 Dec 08, 11:07 PM by Degenerate

21 Dec 08, 10:46 PM
Mac_rame
UK(E), 12 yrs
Ebay is your friend:-p

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/HJC-dennis-the-menace-zf8-...

Thank you for calling the Mental Health Line. If you are Obsessive-Compulsive please press 1 repeatedly. If you are Co-dependant please ask someone to press 2. If you have Multiple Personalities please press 3,4,5,and 6. If you are Paranoid-Delusional we know who you are and what you want. Stay on the line

21 Dec 08, 10:54 PM
Degenerate*
UK(M), 5 yrs

Mac_rame wrote:
Ebay is your friend:-p

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/HJC-dennis-the-menace-zf8-...

o wonder if i can find one not in extra large ;-)

Sign up to CAAN's statement - http://www.caan.org.uk
Sexuality - strong and warm and wild and free, Sexuality - your laws do not apply to me (Billy Bragg)

Edited 21 Dec 08, 10:55 PM by Degenerate

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