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| 17 Dec 08, 8:21 AM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £  |
I do not have sex with my subs, however the sexual & sensual journey is just as fulfillng, or even more excluding sex as the end result.
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| 17 Dec 08, 8:53 AM Gentleman_Tom UK(SE), 4 yrs  |
MMMmmm just being close to Mistress Rouge and seeing Her warmth and smile is almost like a feeling of having sex and satisfaction and knowing one cant be where they may wish. The suffering for Her satisfies one | ||
| 17 Dec 08, 11:24 AM syrthe69 FR, 4 yrs |
bdsm is sex sex is bdsm for me as submissive by all the way:sumission:canning fisting fetish, femelisation, exhibition, oral and anal sex shiting and pissing, ;;your brain isn't our firt sexuial organ? Julia | ||
| 17 Dec 08, 3:49 PM Rhoobarb UK(FK), 12 yrs |
I'm a female sub/bottom and I like BDSM. I also like sex, but don't have to have the two things together. In my opinion, and for me, I'd say sex needs BDSM, but BDSM can be enjoyed on its own without sex. Sometimes the faffing about to get me to orgasm detracts from the BDSM and I can't be arsed with it. However if the person I am playing with wants to have an orgasm during play, then I don't mind helping that along, so long as it is part of the 'play' and it doesn't all stop for that to happen. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ | ||
| 17 Dec 08, 8:06 PM MistressRouge UK(B), 6 yrs £ |
How sweet sub tommy
Being unobtainable works for me
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| 17 Dec 08, 11:40 PM frogman UK(SE), 5 yrs |
BDSM?... Without wanting Sex!?!?!????? I can't even think about what to have for breakfast, or decide what my favourite colour is without wanting sex, let alone S&M!!! I suppose I can endure periods of sensory dep... content in bondage, without seriously needing sex, but it's still not far from my mind... and it's still very easy to convince me that it's a bloody good idea. But I can think of no occasion when I'd actively decide "no, I don't fancy a bit of how's your father". At a funeral maybe... or if I was ill... sorry darling not tonight, I have a headache... ... even then I'd probably give it a go.
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| 18 Dec 08, 3:20 AM DavetheButcher UK(M), 5 yrs |
Ain't happening I'm afraid. DtB Fuck Yeah. | ||
| 18 Dec 08, 7:24 PM Pretty_miss_pinup 4 yrs |
Yeah i completely agree. When i first got in to it all i found it a really sexual thing but as time went on and i learnt a lot about what BDSM means to me and what i want from it that whole sexaual thing went. Personaly BDSM i feel is about escapism, learning about yourself as a person and pushing the broundries you need to have contrast in your life!
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| 18 Dec 08, 7:42 PM Godwin UK, 8 yrs |
Can let it go. Play can be very tiring for either party. Must admit to wanting sex at some stage though, if 'possible', lol. God's gift - but don't expect it instantly. | ||
| 18 Dec 08, 8:10 PM Sinister_Duck UK(NG), 3 yrs |
I guess I'll join the ranks of those who are doing it wrong then ... |
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