This post is on the Stockport (SK) topics page and the Other BDSM web board (moved from D/s & M/s).
| Mon 1 Dec 08, 12:20 AM unfiablepeak UK(SK), 7 yrs  |
well so it seems, how do i go about people taking me seriously, as you can see by my profile ive been on here for what seems a eternity, and yet still to one to serve and to cherish, only people wanting my money of me for 10 minutes of cam Domination (dont make me laugh).
Im always straight with the people whom i chat with, yet im still here waiting for santa to drop the bombshell of no Domme again xmas morning.
rant over thankyou for taking your time to read Edited Mon 1 Dec 08, 12:23 AM by unfiablepeak | |
| 1 Dec 08, 1:15 AM Miss_OL UK(YO), 6 yrs  |
The usual advice is to go to munches, have a real-life network, a photo, post more on the boards ... that is generally the way people decide if someone is genuine it seems. Maybe you need to re-think your approach, but I'd say your profile reads well - sometimes it's just a case of writing the right thing to the right person at the right time. Good luck ... and don't give up. Grab your things, I've come to take you home. | |
| 1 Dec 08, 1:35 AM vellan_drang 5 yrs |
You have one person on your network (online), and one post. Yet you've been a member of the board for 3 years. I didn't bother checking out your previous ID. I'm off to find some Kleenex. v._dr | |
| 1 Dec 08, 2:43 AM angelskij UK(NR), 5 yrs |
Miss OL has given you some good advice, it's definitely worth following up on her suggestions to improve your profile. The problem is by not doing much posting you're pretty much relying on Dommes contacting you via your ad or replying to memo's you've sent them, either way you're in a very long queue. That's why it's a good idea to post regularly, get yourself noticed by people. Although your profile reads nicely enough it basically talks about what you want to do and the kind of relationship you're looking for, that's fine of course but you really need to mention what you can offer a Domme in terms of submissive or practical skills, Dommes notice these kind of things.
I think you'd be better off concentrating on trying to build friendships with Dominant women first, that will help you build up your reputation and if you get on with one of those Dommes a relationship may develop from there, it's a much less pressured way of meeting someone. I hope everything works out well for you and you find what you're looking for.
Once it was just innocence, brash ideas and insolence, but you will never get away with the things you say today | |
| 1 Dec 08, 4:53 AM Excalibur_1949 6 yrs |
the best way of getting to meet Dommes and other subs, and build a good network, is to go to munches in your area. after three and a half years on Ic, with no posts until now, and only a single networker, and that an online one, it is hardly going to get you noticed. Munches are the front line for meeting people, and most munches have a meet and greet system in place if you feel nervous about going to one. as it stand currently, you could well be on IC for another three and a half years, and still not find what you are looking for. My suggestion is to get out and about, get seen and maybe, just maybe, as your network grows, people will begin to notice you. stagnant water attracts only flies, not flowers Edited 1 Dec 08, 4:55 AM by Excalibur_1949 | |
| 7 Dec 08, 9:11 PM EtaCarinae CA, 5 yrs |
I can understand your frustration about commercial doms wanting your money, but what do you have to offer in reality and what do you do to experience it more than on cam and through virtual chats? .... Define what you want in reality and define if it is realistic and then actively seek to find Her.
Mnemosyne |
