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| firemynx_B |
on Sun 30 Nov 08, 1:46 PM to firemynx_B's blog.
Having sat and read for days and days on end, constant battles, more and more people dragged in, I am really very glad not to be involved in any way whatsoever.
In my opinion it should have been kept between the 2 people involved, it should not have been brought to IC, and the more people that get involved, the less likely it is going to be, to be resolved. Those who have tried to help, seem to be being dragged into the shit. If it couldn't be resolved between the two, then surely it *should* go down the legal route. Who is to “blame” I don't much care about either. Mainly because it *is* between the two people.
It won't be the first personal battle that has been brought to IC, and I am sure it won't be the last, but it certainly makes me even more cautious of those I would want to mix with. Not because of the original problem (simply from what I have read), but more because of the mouthing off and drama that have evolved from it.
Surely only the two people involved truly know what has gone on, and I suspect even that has been skewed by personal feelings and high emotions.
Of course, it's a perfect playground for anyone who had agendas and personal issues previous to this situation, to have their say. But I suspect denial will be following shortly on that.
Some things don't change, just the names change from time to time. Glad to not be at all involved, personally recommend others do the same.
| 30 Nov 08, 10:39 PM Caracal  UK(SS), 4 yrs      |
Due to the direness and bitchery on the boards, I got all my ironing done, completed 4 months worth of business expenses and cleaned the bathroom from top to bottom today. I've been around this site for a few years so have seen it all before but heavens only know what the newly curious would think. It's a thin line, between love and hurt. Edited 30 Nov 08, 10:40 PM by Caracal |
