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| 1 Dec 08, 10:14 PM MrSnake UK(BT), 8 yrs   |
What happens if you leave the toilet seat up? "We don't have bastards, just happy little accidents" | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 10:17 PM CookieMonster UK, 6 yrs |
And a good one. Maybe discussing it online in public is some aspect of their relationship? I dont see any harm in it except some may get rubbed up the wrong way if they feel they are being "Taught to suck eggs". but i'll leave it to the OP.
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| 1 Dec 08, 10:31 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs   |
How long have you actually been partaking in this dynamic for you to mutually feel you have experienced enough variation of everyday difficulties that you can guide others on the ins and outs of how to deal with problems you encounter? I notice that you only actually joined IC 2 weeks ago... This is also a genuine question. Tuam matrem feci, | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 10:43 PM x_bec_x 4 yrs |
of course... doh! the longer you've been on IC, the truer the BDSM'er you are... silly me, good job the day i registered on IC was the same day i began my bdsm journey and i didn't have any experiences and relationships before that!
i don't appreciate you creeping up on me like a dog at a disco... | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 11:03 PM BendMe_ShapeMe 4 yrs |
I'm interested in it. If your not don't read it.
But yeah....what does she do if you leave the toilet seat up | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 11:14 PM Janie_0 UK(G), 8 yrs |
Please refer to rule No 1 http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/167623/ How long does it take? | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 11:17 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs |
That's why I said it was a genuine question. Because I didn't want people to make silly assumptions like that I would think that age or date of joining IC was relevant to BDSM experience. I am asking how long the relationship has lasted not to pass judgement on "truer BDSM'er"ness but instead on the common sense notion that a 24/7 relationship that has lasted 2 weeks will not have the same experience of the dynamic as one that has lasted for 2 years. Tuam matrem feci, | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 11:22 PM BendMe_ShapeMe 4 yrs |
Does she speak to you in public as she does in private? I could imagine that if she is so used to talking 'down' to you (is that the right word?) in the home then she might subconciously do it in front of friends or strangers? | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 11:37 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs |
Or in front of the 3 teenagers? Tuam matrem feci, | |||
| 1 Dec 08, 11:54 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs |
That's rule 1 as posted by Janie66:
Tuam matrem feci, |
