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Ladies - What should be on a male's profile? (68)

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1 Dec 08, 10:20 PM
mesmerone
UK(E), 5 yrs

The_Inner_Whore wrote:
I think it's some kind of Trekkie language.

I thought Klingon had more 'k's in it?

1 Dec 08, 11:06 PM
filthfromfingers
UK(RG), 4 yrs
super_loulou wrote:

Physically, due to my own slim build, someone with a similar build to me is probably the best fit. If you are a larger lady then we probably will not get on. It is hard to Dominate a girl who can simply sit on you, and sharing a bed (to sleep I mean) is a challenge.

Charming. So anyone less than slim is a challenge to share a bed with eh? Really? Also if you have a problem dominating (small d) someone because of their size then you're not a very good dom are you?

I wasn't talking in general, but for myself. The profile is supposed to be about me after all. I am physically very slim, and my life experience tells me that I am best suited to someone of a similar build.

super_loulou wrote:

If I have sent you a note and you have read this far and are not interested, then please be polite and let me know. Furthermore if we have had some communication and you decide that we aren't suited, again please do tell me. I am not one of those stalker types, but there is nothing worse than being ignored.

So even if she has not initiated contact and your memo is completely unwelcome then she should feel obliged to reply to you to let you know she's not interested? Dictating to strangers is rude, but then much of your profile comes across as quite arrogant (after a pretty good start). Just because you're a dom doesn't mean you have to be arrogant, though if this is a true reflection of your personality then I guess it's just fair warning for people.

As a female you simply will not appreciate what men on internet sites go through. I have written before, and I will repeat again. The "memo" blink in the corner is a thrill for some, a curse for others.

However if I have taken the time to write a personal message to someone I do believe that it is rude to be ignored. That is my opinion and last time I checked I was allowed to hold my own opinions.

I don't do mass copy and paste, each message I send is written specifically for the person receiving it. However in most cases the messages are ignored. Do you like being ignored? Just because this is online some people think that being polite no longer applies. I was brought up that ignoring someone is rude.

Unfortunately a significant number of men also believe that the usual rules of polite society have also been suspended online, therefore spoiling it for the rest of us.

I thank you for your insight on my profile and expressing your opinion.

S

(edited to fix the quoting)

-- I worked damn hard to be this dull.

Edited 2 Dec 08, 5:25 PM by filthfromfingers

3 Dec 08, 11:11 PM
go4it
UK, 8 yrs
Snakehips wrote:
I have absolutely no idea what this means.

It's what we in the business term a "synaptic shudder". A man in a white coat explains "when a Domme's cerebellum is consumed with lubricious thoughts - in this case young ginger pubes - her hand to eye coordination can become affected in the excitement and letters become transposed".

It's a sure sign a sub has attracted positively positive attention.

Maybe instead of all these "how do I attract" threads there should be one on "subtle signs tactics are working". Surely dommes can't respond to ads, aren't they too busy dealing with importuning subs, and it's just infra dig to cold call a sub.

3 Dec 08, 11:14 PM
Ms_Tytania
7 yrs
go4it wrote:
Snakehips wrote:
I have absolutely no idea what this means.

It's what we in the business term a "synaptic shudder". A man in a white coat explains "when a Domme's cerebellum is consumed with lubricious thoughts - in this case young ginger pubes - her hand to eye coordination can become affected in the excitement and letters become transposed".

It's a sure sign a sub has attracted positively positive attention.

Slander. Those symptons are only triggered by being exposed to high heel shoes.

I'm a Genuine Fake.

Edited 3 Dec 08, 11:15 PM by Ms_Tytania

6 Dec 08, 3:59 PM
ClassAct2005
UK(N), 7 yrs
I hate the cliches on vanilla sites on male profiles. They all like "the finer things" - ugh... dreadful expression. They all like walks and films. etc etc.

You should write how you are. If you fake it cover will soon be blown. What one woman looks for won't be the same as another. On vanilla sites for example I always check if men smoke as I'd never tolerate a smoker. That might well be completely irrelevant to other women.

As this is a BDSM site it's good to hear about what someone is into on that side of things too, to know if they've any experience, if they're dom or sub.

6 Dec 08, 4:47 PM
ampere
UK(SS), 4 yrs
Why put down what you think they want to see.I can't believe that you have to be that desperate to seek advice.
6 Dec 08, 11:27 PM
SinPar
US, 12 yrs
subsearcheruk wrote:
When you are looking for a new relationship with a man, what do you look for in the profile? What don't you want to see in the profile? And finally, what makes you want to send them a memo yourself?
The same thing I look for in a woman's profile- evidence of a sense of humor, a hint of interests that match mine, and a fair assessment of what they want from a relationship.

I don't want laundry lists of things that they want done or intend to do for me.

Generally I run across people's postings and think "They're interesting.. I'll memo." I get far more from postings than I do profiles.

-- The weak are the most treacherous of us all. They come to the strong and drain them. They are bottomless. They are insatiable. They are always parched and always bitter. They are everyone's concern, and like vampires they suck our life's blood. (Bette Davis)

7 Dec 08, 12:16 AM
barbered
UK(RG), 4 yrs
oooh She's interesting - i think i'll memo :)
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